Friday, August 20, 2010

How do you become friends again with someone you haven't talked to in months?

Just drop them an e-mail or a phone call and say ';I just wanted to give you a call to say hi. I know that we haven't talked much recently, but I was thinking about you and just wanted to see how things are going. If you want to give me a call back when you get this, that would be great. Talk to you soon!..'; Then, when they call you back , if the convo is good, make plans to do something with them.How do you become friends again with someone you haven't talked to in months?
That happened to me and now i wish i never did start talking to her again!!!!!!!!!!!!How do you become friends again with someone you haven't talked to in months?
I have the same problem... Just go to him/her or call that person.


email if you have to.
Remember the things that made you close originally and make an effort to get the friendship back on track.
Call them up and invite her/him to lunch.
contact her/him through a phone call, or email or letter.


Take it from there. You's may not be 'friends' again.. but, at least you can say, you made that move and thats what counts.
Just talk about everything that happened over the months u didn't talk and while ur at it tlk about the reason y u two stopped tlking in the first place for so long.
I would just call them and talk to them. Just see how things are going. Call them back after that or they will call you back!
just start talking again, catch up
Just meet--and talk:)
just ask him/her out for a meal, and say you guys want to catch up. its that simple.
Depends. What's the big deal? A time lapse? If they're treacherous, though, how is it you consider them friends? I'm polite. I talk to a lot of people. Most I don't want to even look at, but there they are. ( Tolerance. ) Just because I talk to you doesn't make you my friend. Like just because somebody wears a uniform, doesn't mean a thing. You have to check it out. Particularly in California. Where people are especially treacherous and two faced. Particularly in a uniform. Hope this helps.
Pick up the phone and dial away.
Send them a ';Miss You'; card. Or just pick up the phone and tell them. Life is short. Don't waste one more moment!
It won't happen just over night. Just start talking to them. ask if they wanna grap a bite to eat or a coffee and just make small talk.
give it time!!





Whatever happened between you, you need to find that level where you were at of trusting and loving one another and try to work out the hostility between the two of you.





It either works out or it doesn't!





Good luck!!!
There must be a reason why your not talking to someone for months but I guess you can start with small talk. a hello here and there. text message them or email them.telling them to have a good day or a good weekend, good night etc. the key words here are small talk.
just do it
you cant...I think it was summed up best by another ';yahoo-er'; %26lt;-----(please don't everyone start saying yahoo-er; it sounds so freakin lame) and I quote: ';People are guerillas.'; end quote.
Be the better person, pick up the phone and say you were thinking about them and wondering how they were doing. Sometimes we think too much time has passed and it seems harder to pick up the phone, if their friendship is worth saving then call. Most likely they have missed you too.


Good luck..
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