Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you become friends with someone who's anti-social?

Or at least get them to come out of their shell a little?How do you become friends with someone who's anti-social?
ask uncle social.How do you become friends with someone who's anti-social?
Talk to them one-on-one so there are no distraction and they can feel a little more secure, crack alot of jokes, and ask them to hang out in a group. Just to see if they would be willing, then they will start to feel more relaxed around you and open up a little more.
Some people just take time to warm up to others. I can be like that sometimes. If you make them feel welcome by inviting them to do things and talking to them often they should slowly warm up to you. It may take a long time though so be patient. Also, if the person is anti-social due to depression it could be even more difficult. When you feel depressed you dont want to be social at all. It may have nothing to do with you and not wanting to be your friend but more that they want to be alone with their depression.





Good luck!
If you mean their shy, here is some reasons why they might be shy: (1) they are scared that other people might be mean to them. you can prevent this by just proving to them that you don't say mean things. (2) they might not like one of their flaws (in fact a lot of people are shy because they are trying to hide a flaw) you can talk to them about your own flaws, and in return they might talk to you about theirs. Then you can prove to them that you still like them even with their flaws, and be their friend. That's just some reasons why people get shy. I've been shy before, but I've overcome it through my friends. Hope this helps.
talk to him/her and get to Know them better

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