Friday, August 20, 2010

How can you become only friends with someone that you wanted to be in love with?

That is very hard situation. Obviously, it will be awkward but just try to treat them like you would a normal friend. Give him advice about his problems, listen to him a lot, mess around with him. Maybe get out their and get a boyfriend so that he knows that you are not still hung up on him. Or you can admit your feelings because telling the truth is probably the best way to deal with things like this??xHow can you become only friends with someone that you wanted to be in love with?
It's hard to fall in love when you have not become friends yet. Love is too deep a term and it entails the experience of knowing the other person from head to toe. Not only that, if you say you love a person, you must be willing to accept the good as well as the bad sides of that person. That way, love is justified because there is a willingness to forego yourselves in the interest of the other. Friendship is only a part and process for love to be built from.How can you become only friends with someone that you wanted to be in love with?
This is a really hard question to answer because i'm in the same exatcy problem and looks like you're not the only one that feels that way because alot of people are stuck in this same situation...Right now i'm bestfriend with the ex i always wanted to be with and once was but i lost her so my best advice to you is...Be there for that person no matter what and try to learn to put your feelings aside for that person...you have to learn to accept that youre just friends and thats all you will ever be and if you truly love them then love them anouth to be there friend and want to see them truly happy...i hope this helps
It depends... You wanted to be in love with them... are you? Once you fall in love with someone, it's really hard to switch your feelings to just friends. But it is possible. Just, distance yourself from them, don't hang out with them as much... just focus on other things really. Eventually it'll work out, it's gonna hurt though if you were in love with them.





Sorry and best of luck!
You can share the love and the same strive to love, but do not let it become physical or get married. Syptoms that one really loves someone is that they MUST be with that person, and see them in dreams so long as they are not physical dreams.
i think u will be the best friend for him/her..coz u care





if u want to take the chance and not be left with cud have beens, you can tell him/her abt it..otherwise, go on pretending..it wont be easy, but heck, what is? :) goodluck
you really DO learn to get over it sometime and find someone better for you. you just have to keep meeting new people until you find someone you like, and not hold onto that one person.
I know, it seems impossible. Like you just can't stop feeling that way about the person... You just can't help it.





I don't know really, I'm kinda trying to figure this out myself.
im in the same prop so i cant help u 2 much but im just trying to get him to like me good luck
i'm havin the same problem.i'm trrying my best 2 love her.i cant solve ur problem
i had the same prob. but try not to flirt or anything

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