How do I become friends with someone i hurt really badly last year. i desperatly want her forgiveness.?

I did the wrong thing and i didnt try to fix it instead i continued wit my life and now i hav realised wat im missing out on. i hav sent txts, tried facebook and tried calling. no response except too little too late which i totally agree with. do i give up or is there something else i can do. i thought about a letter but I'm not so sure. that could make things worse. any suggestions welcome.How do I become friends with someone i hurt really badly last year. i desperatly want her forgiveness.?
The only thing left is to send her a nice card that says sorry and hope she receives it. Inside just say something very brief such as you are truly sorry and that she has every right to be hurt by your lack of sensitivity toward her feelings. Tell her you regret that you lost one of the best friends you had. Then tell her you hope she is doing well and then wish her all the best and sign off with just your name. There's no need to rehash what happened as it could open up old wounds.


She will either make contact or not. If she comes around it could be sooner or later so just allow her to make the next more when and if she's ready and leave it at that.


Finally, allow yourself to have peace of mind knowing you did all you could to apologize and make amends.How do I become friends with someone i hurt really badly last year. i desperatly want her forgiveness.?
Well if you haven't already tried to ask her forgiveness in an honest, genuine letter or something, try to. If you have already though and she hasn't accepted it, don't keep trying. It's just going to bother her more and it doesn't sound like she wants to forgive if that's the case. It's regrettable but I guess maybe she doesn't want you back in her life.





You can write another final letter and just not give it to her, keep it or burn it or something. Like your final farewell to clear your conscious. But anyways don't let this eat you up inside. People should learn to be forgiving too. Just try to move on, know you really are sorry and you tried your best.
There are some mistakes you just cannot fix. Since a whole year has gone by and the other person has moved on and does not want to entertain the idea of having you back in her/his life, you need to learn from this mistake so you do not repeat and move on with your own life.





Let it go, forgive yourself and the other person, learn from it and move on. Hopefully you will emerge a better person from this experience.
There might be a problem with how you are apologizing. Don't ever say, ';Hey, I'm sorry, but it was because of blah and blah reason.'; The first step is sincerely, going to the person, and saying honestly, ';I know what I did was wrong, and I extend my heartfelt apology.'; Don't expect that she will forgive you. She probably wont, after so much time. But just the fact that you apologize will give you some satisfaction, and make her feel, in one corner of her mind, that maybe you are not so bad. Maybe she will forgive you. Maybe she won't. If she doesn't, take a breather for a week or so, and try again. Then again. Then once more. And if she still doesn't forgive you...I'm really sorry, but it's time to move on. This approach takes courage but you will feel better afterwards...
Honesty truly is the best policy. Ask her/him for forgiveness. That's all you can do really. Then it is up to your friend. some people find it hard to forgive easily. Not sure what went on between the two of you, but after a sincere apology- it's up to them what happens next.





Hope it turns out the way you'de like.
You need to apologize wholeheartly and then move on. After you make the huge apology then its all up to her what she wants to do about it. You may have lost but the apology will make it better for you, maybe time will heal her and then you can be friends again.
dang wat did u do? ..... u could do the note but that might not work.... wat u might want to do is leave her a voice mail that really shows that u are trully sry and if she answers ur call invite her to lunch and plead ur case if she forgives u then good if not then I'm sry i couldn't help more
So, if I were the person that was hurt, why would I want you back into my life? Have you really changed?
no phone..no text...no facebook...if you really want someone to know you are sorry...face to face is the only way...they need to hear and see your emotions to understand how sincere you actually are...i would grab the person...and say listen...you don't have to say anything...just give me one minute....and tell them what a jerk you were...and you realize that...boy oh boy do i realize that...and state that instead of fixing it i went along w/ my merry life...but everyday it haunts me on how much i hurt you...and i hate myself for that..all i want to do is tell you how sorry i am...how foolish i was...you are a good person...and you don't deserve what i did to you...i applogize to you...and i hope you can accept this...my wrong is my wrong...and i will carry it w/ me everyday of my life...i just want to know you have found peace in yourself...all of that good stuff...make sureyou put this person on a pedastol ...and yourself down as low as you can be...and see where that takes you....best of luck....what did you do?