Friday, August 20, 2010

Becoming friends with someone you don't know.... How is this done?

There is a guy that I like that I would like to be friends with a lot. The problem is that I really don't know him. He works at a local cafe and, though we have talked a few times, there really isn't much time to. Just in case it will affect your answers, he works behind the register and the place is fairly busy.





I have talk to him a few times before, most of which he engaged conversation, but they were all very short talks.





Does anyone have any suggestions of things I could say or ways that wouldn't be too awkward to talk to him?





I know this is a little weird, but bear with me. I'm a teenager.Becoming friends with someone you don't know.... How is this done?
Ask him what he does besides working at the cafe---what school he goes to. Talk for a while about that. Try to catch him during the slower times if possible. Ask him what times he works, casually. Tell him if he's ever not working and wants to hang out, you think he seems like a cool guy and then drop your number off.Becoming friends with someone you don't know.... How is this done?
Ask him if he'll have an ice cream with you sometime where you can talk peacefully or ask him for coffee at Starbucks.
Try to stand off to side of the register and engage in conversation that way. You can also try to go there at a time when it isn't as busy and talk to him that way.





Maybe catch him on his lunch break, if you figure out when it is.





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Myspace question-becoming friends with someone??

this guy sent me an e-mail to be my friend i guess..i didn't accept..but hes on my friend list..i blocked him..how do i delete him from seeing my profile, or can he, and how did he become my friend?Myspace question-becoming friends with someone??
go to view all your friends


then look for the button that says edit friends


it should be top right corner


after that you just find his picture and


check the box under his picture


and click the delete selected friends button :]


hope this helpsMyspace question-becoming friends with someone??
click ' edit friends'





its on the top right hand corner of your friends space on your home page.





when you go there, search his name or display name





tick the box next to his name and press delete.





and he'll be gone.





the only way he's your ffriend is if you accepted him,


maybe you did it without realising?


or it could be some myspace virus/hack that adds itself to your account... so its good that you're deleting him.

Is it wrong to be friends with someone my best friend hates?

So my best friend does not like this one girl. They went to elementary school together and I don't really know what happened between them. All I know is that she thinks she's a ***** and hates her. Well I joined the lacrosse team and the same girl was on the team too. Wee started to hang out during practice and she is not how my best friend described her at all. She is really nice and we have a lot in common. Is it wrong that I've become friends with someone my best friend hates? Should I not even worry about it?Is it wrong to be friends with someone my best friend hates?
I think that it is your choice who you are friends with. If you want to be friends with this girl, then go for it! You may even be able to prove to your other friend that she's not as bad as she thinks. Maybe you can help her get over her problem with the other girl. Just make sure that you don't completely drop your best friend for this girl, because it's probably not worth losing your best friend over.


Hope this helps!Is it wrong to be friends with someone my best friend hates?
It isn't wrong that your friends with both of them. It isn't illegal for you to hang out with both of them. If they are both your friends than that's fine. It's your choice not hers. You have every right to be friends with both of them. The fight is between them, and you don't have to be in the middle of their fight. Good luck! I hope everything works out!
It depends. Ask your best friend what happened between them, and if she won't tell you, then just be friends with the other girl. Just stay out of the fights and don't let them talk about each other behind their backs to you. Explain to your best friend that you are only friends with her and she will always be your best friend.





But if she does tell you, it's your choice whether or not you should be her friend.





Hope this helps!





Blessings,





Dylan
People can change so much from elementary school to high school. They mature and are on there way to becoming mature young adults. If you like this person from the team and you want to know her better, then you owe it to yourself to do just that. I think you should find out for yourself just what kind of person she is and then make your decision. I would not let my best friend influence me. Think for yourself. If the new girl turns out to be a great person, then maybe explain that this girl has grown up and is really worth knowing to your best friend...maybe you can all be friends.
well depends. if she hates her for something genuine you should try stick by your friend but not hate your friends enimy. try keep out of it.theres no rule about not been able to be friends with your friends enermies. well if she doesnt like maybe she jelous that your friends with her and she may become over protective because she maybe affraid to loose you as a friendd because she may think because they hate each other she will try take you away from her as revenge. but overall i think you should just be friends with her and do what you truly belive and do it if your friend doesnt like maybe she doesnt even like you having any friends apart from her. just be friends with em both and keep a distance between them both like dont let them be close to each other or it might all end badly





hope it helps


x
no, it's not wrong. It's just that you and this friend share more in common and can get along. I've had to deal with this before, and it's best just to keep these friendships seperate and try as much as possible not to associate or talk about those friends to the other. Karma is a b*tch! good luck!!
deffinatley not! im best friends with my other best friends enemy. we hav unique arguments tho. we argue about it all the time, but they hate eachother because one slept with the other brother. there was a massive age difference there as well. she was 13, and her brother was 17. anyways she freaked out but im still friends with both of them. its up to you who your friends with, you shuld make your own oppinion of people not just what people tell you..


goood luck xx
I wouldn't worry about it at all. You have all the rights in the world to be friends with who you want too. Just don't bring them together that's all. Do things separately with them so there is no hard feelings.
You have the right to be friends with whomever you wish. Obviously there is some jealousy which makes your friend say nasty things about her. You can make up your own mind.
well it depends on how your best friend is she might get jealous or mad


but your best friend cant tell you who to be friends with if you feel bad that your her friend then you shouldnt be her friend just discuss it over with your bff
Ur friend might get mad.


Just as long as u don't bring her around ur best friend.


But u should also talk 2 her see is she ok with it ?
one word=loyalty





been there done that and it sucks big time to be in between two different individuals

How do you become someones friend on myspace if you dont know their email or last name?

i really need to become friends with someone on myspace but i dont know theyre email or last name. and i cant contact them in any way to get this info. can anyone help me?!?! its very important.


thank you.How do you become someones friend on myspace if you dont know their email or last name?
try sending them a message telling them to add you


if that doesnt work





have someone else thats their age send them a request and have them contact youHow do you become someones friend on myspace if you dont know their email or last name?
myspace tries to keep age groups separate - the line is 18 years old





if you are over 18 you arent allowed to add people under 18 unless you know them and vice versa





it's for your own protection
- Track down one of their friends





- Search by first name + location





- Search by school

Is it hard to make new friends if you transfer schools?

I'm transferring to a new highschool soon and everyone there will already have their own group of friends. I'll have to get used to finding all my classes and get to know everyone.





It's going to be really tough to catch up with everything then find new friends. I'm wondering has anyone transferred schools in the 9th grade? Was it hard to find true friends??





And also...how do you become friends with someone?? Do you talk to them then ask them if you can sit with them at lunch?? Help? Is it hard to make new friends if you transfer schools?
Be yourself. Never change who you are to try and fit in. If your friends don't accept you for you, they're not really friends.





Make the first move. Anywhere, in the bathroom, near your locker, or at the water fountain, you can find someone that has things in common with you, all you need is to know how to approach them. Strike up a conversation, smile and compliment them, and, of course, introduce yourself and tell them where you came from! You never know where you can find a nice friend.





Yes, you can just ask them if they would mind you sitting with them.


Talk to them, be friendly, good luck!Is it hard to make new friends if you transfer schools?
At every school, there will be at least one or two groups that will invite you into theirs. On the first day of school, look for someone who is nice and friendly looking who sits by you, (I suggest to find this someone in your class right before lunch starts) So that you can just ask them if you can sit with them. I am sure that they will understand. :) Good luck :)
we moved around a lot as a kid and I never had any problems making friends in a new school.





you talk to them in class, you ask them about themselves, you try to find common interests.
no not at all!
I switched schools my 10th grade year, and it was actually easy for me to make new friends. My closest friends from that time (ones I still talk to, even now!) were in my art classes with me from grades 10-12.





Ways I met some of my new friends: chemistry class where we were lab partners, being seated at same table in art class, or sitting next to each other in class.





If you can, join some after school clubs or activities. That will be an easier way for you to make new friends as well.





You'll be amazed at how easy it is. It seems overwhelming at first. I was painfully shy my first day at my new school (I had transferred from a Catholic school where I was bullied, which made me feel painfully self-conscious), but the people in my classes were very nice and for the first time EVER in my remembered school life, I came home smiling from ear-to-ear that day :-)





Just be nice to everyone, and be yourself. You'll be making new friends before you know it :-)

How to become friends on face book?

i know it sounds weird and please don't ask why! lol its nothing bad. but how do you become really good friends with someone thru face book that you have no no idea who it is or ever met? without being freaky or crippy? please answerHow to become friends on face book?
add them and just go to facebook chat and just say stuff like heey :) and say whats up and stuff


dont message them too much cause then you'll seem annoying and creepy and pedophile like soo just keep it simple :)


and simply be nice





hope i helped :)How to become friends on face book?
add someone with your same full name and be like i added you because of that then say like whats up and stuff.
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