I AM A HORRIBLE PERSON!!! how can i become friends with someone i ignored all day??!!?!?!??!?

ok well long sory, but heres the short version, im a loner at school..... i like sitting alone at lunch, not many friends, and ok fine im rly shy.... anyways, theres this guy that always sits by himself too..... always has his head down, depressed looking....soo...anyways... we were siting alone at two seprate tables at lunch teusday, and well he came up to me and said hi, and when i saw him, his hair swooshed back with the wind (kinda like in those movies when a hot guy walks on screen) he always has his hair infront of his face i never noticed how HOT he rly was.... hes so cute.... so we talked and walked around at lunch, he was super nice, i tryd to sound intresting, but i think i sounded boring.... he even held the door open for me... what guy does that nowdays?? and he offered to buy me food, and kept insisting, but i rly wasnt hungry. i told all my friends about him, and turns out one of my friends is rly good friends with him.... (me and him both go to a new school this year, but we went to the same old school, but didnt know eachother, confusing i know) so then today came and i was to scared to go up and talk, he didnt come up to me eaither, we both sat alone at lunch.... and i was too scared to look at him, now i feel stupid,mean, horrible, and im kinda sad, was i too boring? does he hate me? whyd he talk to me in the first place? and was he thinking about me? i know i should of atleast looked at him in class and smiled..... but he was just too cute, it made me nervous.... what should i do? i think im gunna try and smile at him, or aleast look at him in class tomarow...... advise? please?????? thnx, bye.I AM A HORRIBLE PERSON!!! how can i become friends with someone i ignored all day??!!?!?!??!?
Tomorrow, smile at him in class. He obviously wants to be friends because he approached you - so now it's your turn to approach him and give him the A-OK. By not sitting with him, you gave off the idea that you don't want to be friends. He sounds like a nice guy, so I doubt he was offended, but to remedy the problem, approach him tomorrow and sit with him at lunch. Don't make a big fuss about what you did today either. Good luck!I AM A HORRIBLE PERSON!!! how can i become friends with someone i ignored all day??!!?!?!??!?
thers something about humans that sometimes when wer nervous, we WANt to do something but our bodies just wont do it


lol so dont be shy think about something important to you and just go up and sit n talk with him itll do you both a favor theres not harm in being nice:)
He was probably just as nervous about what you thought of him. Just tell him hello tomorrow, and apologize for avoiding him yesterday. Tell him that you had a lot on your mind and needed to be alone to think. He spoke to you because he was attracted to you. Now go enjoy his company!!
i think you should just smile at him during class/lunch. if you want to, go up and talk to him during lunch. he seems shy too, so maybe he just wants YOU to talk to him first, because he doesnt know if yyouu like him or not.
you are not a horrible person. Just CHILL OUT. Be yourself. He's as awkward as you are about things.. and that's normal.


Just give him a grin what the WORST thing that can happen?


He won't grin back... not such a big deal is it?
Aaaaw. Just go up to him. He was waiting for you to go up to him just like you were waiting for him to go up to you. Either he's just really polite or her likes you. :D
Just go talk to him again, this time you initiate the conversation. If he started talking to you he's probably asking himself the same questions.
If you are ready to say hello, then just do it. They will understand if they are similar to you and sit on their own. Let them know how you felt and all should be good in the hood!
Break the ice and buy him lunch the next time you see him. I'm sure he will forgive you. Don't ignore him again, because he will start thinking you don't like his company at all. :)
Just relax and if you see him sitting alone again just go and say hi just like he did and ask if you can join him i'm sure it'll be alright
omg u over analyze things


don't freak out and try to rehearse what ur gona say


talk to ur friend that is friends with him
tell him ';sorry i was rude. It's just that (insert reason here)





i hope we can still be friends';
stab him in the jaw
Just do what he did go up to him and say


'hi'





He sounds awesome!
take it eazy
ur going crazy just talk to him or say hi
that sounds like a really cute story..but well maybe he didnt come up to you today because he might be scared hes the one that might have been boring and probably thinks your going to have a weird reaction towards him..you understand where im getting??so well tommorow or whenever your going to see him u might want to be the 1 to start talking to him you know start a nice conversation that ay it wont be awkward between you guys and well chances are you guys might start liking each other and stuff because its really rare to see a guy just come up to you and do all those nice things but well i hope it all goes good..goodluck..=]
Aw, thats cute %26lt;3 Just be yourself and go up to him !! :D %26lt;3


Good luck (: Yeah, it's really hard to do that because I have the same problem ! people just say ';Go up to him and say hi !'; but it isnt that easy, but idk just be yourself and I'm sure in no time you guys are gonna be good friends ! %26lt;33
try not to ignore them
And no, you're not a horrible person. I think you should just relax and do what you said you were going to do and when you see him tomorrow just smile at him in class. Then at lunchtime you can go over to him and say maybe hi, how is your day going so far? Have they been giving you a lot of homework too?





Just take things slow and don't try to rush them. I think he likes you but maybe he's shy and not sure how to maintain a relationship. Keep things cool and just act like you normally do but if you want to chat with him, go over and just start talking. I think he'll be open to it. Don't be afraid to talk with him.





By him making the first move and talking with you, I think he left it open for you to talk to him if you want too. Don't over analyze things too and just enjoy his company. Even if it doesn't turn into a relationship, it doesn't hurt to get to know him and have him as a good friend. Good luck to you two.
go sit beside him at lunch. and be like-hey, wats up? hwo was your day? so I heard this cool song on the radio this morning or hey is saw this rly cool movie last night. just stupid stuff to talk about. he likes you, othrwise he owuldnt have opnd the door! he is tryn to impres u.
okay the reason he didnt come by you today is that he is prolly nervous to and he also sounds shy


but now you sent him the message that you are not interested specially since you didnt even look at him at school so if you are interested just talk to him as one of you girl friends eveything will wok out in the end





just say hey in the hall and smile aat him and then the next day go up to him everything will be fine he doesnt bite i least i hope not








good luck


-salsa