Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do you become friends with someone?

okay well am like a total loser at math camp.


it's at this catholic school am going too and i don't know anyone there





so what exactly should i say,to become their friend????How do you become friends with someone?
First of all, how can other math camp kids think you're a loser?





Making friends is easy.


Start out with a random comment. Say you're sitting beside some guy while a teacher is talking, make a comment about how the teacher is such a hard ***, or too nice, or slightly crazy, etc.


Then get a conversation started like that.


If you're doing something school-related, complaints always seem to be the way to go. Even something as simple as, ';this is totally stupid'; seems to work, all you need is a way to get into a conversation. Once it's started, then it's easy.





As soon as you've made yourself an acquaintance with someone else, you're free to randomly strike up conversation more easily.


Like the next day, when you talk to this same guy, you could easily start up a new conversation with him about absolutely anything. ';Hey, what's up?.....So yesterday I went to the movies and I saw 'Inglorious bastards'....'; then you can go on to talk about your movie, and how great it was and oh, did he see it too, what did he think.





Then, as these conversations become more frequent, and more relaxed, you will slowly, if you guys get along, become friends.





See, it's easy to make friends, if you're shy and dont know what to talk about, music/movies/media are always a good way to go. If you can analyse the person's appearance quickly to see if that gives you any indication of what they'd be interested in talking about.


If conversation gets slow, go back to something that you began to talk about earlier, but only skimmed over, ';Oh yea, and you were saying earlier that you love all Quentin Tarantino movies? What's your favourite? Did you ever see......'; etc.





So, get on it! Work those social skills, and start up some brilliant conversations!


Good luck! :)How do you become friends with someone?
Be yourself. Relax. Engage in conversations. Make yourself approachable. SMILE!!





Remember you are NOT a loser, you're just feeling a little anxious and that's normal.
be nice


look friendly


join clubs or sports at your school if there are any if not ,


take a trip to your local Y and find a class that intersts you

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