Is it wrong to be friends with someone my best friend hates?

So my best friend does not like this one girl. They went to elementary school together and I don't really know what happened between them. All I know is that she thinks she's a ***** and hates her. Well I joined the lacrosse team and the same girl was on the team too. Wee started to hang out during practice and she is not how my best friend described her at all. She is really nice and we have a lot in common. Is it wrong that I've become friends with someone my best friend hates? Should I not even worry about it?Is it wrong to be friends with someone my best friend hates?
I think that it is your choice who you are friends with. If you want to be friends with this girl, then go for it! You may even be able to prove to your other friend that she's not as bad as she thinks. Maybe you can help her get over her problem with the other girl. Just make sure that you don't completely drop your best friend for this girl, because it's probably not worth losing your best friend over.


Hope this helps!Is it wrong to be friends with someone my best friend hates?
It isn't wrong that your friends with both of them. It isn't illegal for you to hang out with both of them. If they are both your friends than that's fine. It's your choice not hers. You have every right to be friends with both of them. The fight is between them, and you don't have to be in the middle of their fight. Good luck! I hope everything works out!
It depends. Ask your best friend what happened between them, and if she won't tell you, then just be friends with the other girl. Just stay out of the fights and don't let them talk about each other behind their backs to you. Explain to your best friend that you are only friends with her and she will always be your best friend.





But if she does tell you, it's your choice whether or not you should be her friend.





Hope this helps!





Blessings,





Dylan
People can change so much from elementary school to high school. They mature and are on there way to becoming mature young adults. If you like this person from the team and you want to know her better, then you owe it to yourself to do just that. I think you should find out for yourself just what kind of person she is and then make your decision. I would not let my best friend influence me. Think for yourself. If the new girl turns out to be a great person, then maybe explain that this girl has grown up and is really worth knowing to your best friend...maybe you can all be friends.
well depends. if she hates her for something genuine you should try stick by your friend but not hate your friends enimy. try keep out of it.theres no rule about not been able to be friends with your friends enermies. well if she doesnt like maybe she jelous that your friends with her and she may become over protective because she maybe affraid to loose you as a friendd because she may think because they hate each other she will try take you away from her as revenge. but overall i think you should just be friends with her and do what you truly belive and do it if your friend doesnt like maybe she doesnt even like you having any friends apart from her. just be friends with em both and keep a distance between them both like dont let them be close to each other or it might all end badly





hope it helps


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no, it's not wrong. It's just that you and this friend share more in common and can get along. I've had to deal with this before, and it's best just to keep these friendships seperate and try as much as possible not to associate or talk about those friends to the other. Karma is a b*tch! good luck!!
deffinatley not! im best friends with my other best friends enemy. we hav unique arguments tho. we argue about it all the time, but they hate eachother because one slept with the other brother. there was a massive age difference there as well. she was 13, and her brother was 17. anyways she freaked out but im still friends with both of them. its up to you who your friends with, you shuld make your own oppinion of people not just what people tell you..


goood luck xx
I wouldn't worry about it at all. You have all the rights in the world to be friends with who you want too. Just don't bring them together that's all. Do things separately with them so there is no hard feelings.
You have the right to be friends with whomever you wish. Obviously there is some jealousy which makes your friend say nasty things about her. You can make up your own mind.
well it depends on how your best friend is she might get jealous or mad


but your best friend cant tell you who to be friends with if you feel bad that your her friend then you shouldnt be her friend just discuss it over with your bff
Ur friend might get mad.


Just as long as u don't bring her around ur best friend.


But u should also talk 2 her see is she ok with it ?
one word=loyalty





been there done that and it sucks big time to be in between two different individuals