cant really, dealing with the same problem, if u get a new bf, he will soon be jealous of himHow do you become friends with someone you broke up with?
Hun.. sorry but it won't happen. Unless the break up was totally mutual then you can't be friends with your ex.
It takes time apart before you can become friends again. Both of you need to move on to cut that deep emotional tie you had together. After you no longer have those deep feelings for him then it may work to become friends, just be honest with yourself about how you feel about him. If you just try to be friends right away you're only setting youself up to get hurt.
I have been there but it wasn't that I liked him after the fact it was that he is the father of my children and it took me a while to grow up and just except him for the moron that he is and to be honest I think it took me 2 years before I could stand to talk to him but now it's cool.
In your case you need to wait until you get over the feelings that you have for him first to hold on to any kind of friendship and if you don't wait there is no sense because it won't work out for either of you and don't forget that he has feelings to so both of you need to get over it first and then if things are cool and you can still be friends like before right on but if not well that is just something that you will need to deal with.
Good luck.
it really just takes time... if it seems like he hates you wait a little bit... stop trying to talk to him and after a while text him and see whats up... dont call him babe or anything like that... just see what hes been up to recently... gradually you will become friends... it does take time for him to get over the fact you two arent together anymore...
I think it's hard to be friends with ur ex, I tried myself and it didn't work. All becuz u at some point u might just want to be friends and he might want u back or the other way round and yea that's not a pretty picture, cuz someone will gonna get hurt. But being friends with an ex can be done tho it's just hard.
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