How do you approach someone about becoming friends with benefits?

I am separated from my hubby with no chance of reconciliation and fully intent on divorcing. I have not had sex in months. I have a friend, someone I used to work with, that I communicate online with. We always been extremely flirtatious with one another and I know he is single. We've chatted about sexual stuff many times over the last few months, but I'm not sure how serious he is about actually hooking up, but I would love to have him as a FWB...he's about 200 miles away...long-distance so he wouldn't be some local guy bugging me to get together all the time, we respect and like one another, we're both not with anyone and plus he's incredibly HOT. I know its only about sex and I'm fine with that...it's all I really want or need right now. I'm not a w h o r e or s l u t, never have been, but I really miss sex. Any suggestions as to what would be the best way to bring this up to him???How do you approach someone about becoming friends with benefits?
The same way you asked this question. Just come on out with it. It should not be hard since you have already chatted about sex. All you have to do is let him know that you are serious and would like to stop talking about it and being about it. Being up front is the best answer in my book, good luck.How do you approach someone about becoming friends with benefits?
Just ask him in a nice, friendly, frank %26amp; flirty way...
ask him, most guys are willing