There is a guy that I like that I would like to be friends with a lot. The problem is that I really don't know him. He works at a local cafe and, though we have talked a few times, there really isn't much time to. Just in case it will affect your answers, he works behind the register and the place is fairly busy.
I have talk to him a few times before, most of which he engaged conversation, but they were all very short talks.
Does anyone have any suggestions of things I could say or ways that wouldn't be too awkward to talk to him?
I know this is a little weird, but bear with me. I'm a teenager.Becoming friends with someone you don't know.... How is this done?
Ask him what he does besides working at the cafe---what school he goes to. Talk for a while about that. Try to catch him during the slower times if possible. Ask him what times he works, casually. Tell him if he's ever not working and wants to hang out, you think he seems like a cool guy and then drop your number off.Becoming friends with someone you don't know.... How is this done?
Ask him if he'll have an ice cream with you sometime where you can talk peacefully or ask him for coffee at Starbucks.
Try to stand off to side of the register and engage in conversation that way. You can also try to go there at a time when it isn't as busy and talk to him that way.
Maybe catch him on his lunch break, if you figure out when it is.
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Friday, August 20, 2010
Myspace question-becoming friends with someone??
this guy sent me an e-mail to be my friend i guess..i didn't accept..but hes on my friend list..i blocked him..how do i delete him from seeing my profile, or can he, and how did he become my friend?Myspace question-becoming friends with someone??
go to view all your friends
then look for the button that says edit friends
it should be top right corner
after that you just find his picture and
check the box under his picture
and click the delete selected friends button :]
hope this helpsMyspace question-becoming friends with someone??
click ' edit friends'
its on the top right hand corner of your friends space on your home page.
when you go there, search his name or display name
tick the box next to his name and press delete.
and he'll be gone.
the only way he's your ffriend is if you accepted him,
maybe you did it without realising?
or it could be some myspace virus/hack that adds itself to your account... so its good that you're deleting him.
go to view all your friends
then look for the button that says edit friends
it should be top right corner
after that you just find his picture and
check the box under his picture
and click the delete selected friends button :]
hope this helpsMyspace question-becoming friends with someone??
click ' edit friends'
its on the top right hand corner of your friends space on your home page.
when you go there, search his name or display name
tick the box next to his name and press delete.
and he'll be gone.
the only way he's your ffriend is if you accepted him,
maybe you did it without realising?
or it could be some myspace virus/hack that adds itself to your account... so its good that you're deleting him.
Is it wrong to be friends with someone my best friend hates?
So my best friend does not like this one girl. They went to elementary school together and I don't really know what happened between them. All I know is that she thinks she's a ***** and hates her. Well I joined the lacrosse team and the same girl was on the team too. Wee started to hang out during practice and she is not how my best friend described her at all. She is really nice and we have a lot in common. Is it wrong that I've become friends with someone my best friend hates? Should I not even worry about it?Is it wrong to be friends with someone my best friend hates?
I think that it is your choice who you are friends with. If you want to be friends with this girl, then go for it! You may even be able to prove to your other friend that she's not as bad as she thinks. Maybe you can help her get over her problem with the other girl. Just make sure that you don't completely drop your best friend for this girl, because it's probably not worth losing your best friend over.
Hope this helps!Is it wrong to be friends with someone my best friend hates?
It isn't wrong that your friends with both of them. It isn't illegal for you to hang out with both of them. If they are both your friends than that's fine. It's your choice not hers. You have every right to be friends with both of them. The fight is between them, and you don't have to be in the middle of their fight. Good luck! I hope everything works out!
It depends. Ask your best friend what happened between them, and if she won't tell you, then just be friends with the other girl. Just stay out of the fights and don't let them talk about each other behind their backs to you. Explain to your best friend that you are only friends with her and she will always be your best friend.
But if she does tell you, it's your choice whether or not you should be her friend.
Hope this helps!
Blessings,
Dylan
People can change so much from elementary school to high school. They mature and are on there way to becoming mature young adults. If you like this person from the team and you want to know her better, then you owe it to yourself to do just that. I think you should find out for yourself just what kind of person she is and then make your decision. I would not let my best friend influence me. Think for yourself. If the new girl turns out to be a great person, then maybe explain that this girl has grown up and is really worth knowing to your best friend...maybe you can all be friends.
well depends. if she hates her for something genuine you should try stick by your friend but not hate your friends enimy. try keep out of it.theres no rule about not been able to be friends with your friends enermies. well if she doesnt like maybe she jelous that your friends with her and she may become over protective because she maybe affraid to loose you as a friendd because she may think because they hate each other she will try take you away from her as revenge. but overall i think you should just be friends with her and do what you truly belive and do it if your friend doesnt like maybe she doesnt even like you having any friends apart from her. just be friends with em both and keep a distance between them both like dont let them be close to each other or it might all end badly
hope it helps
x
no, it's not wrong. It's just that you and this friend share more in common and can get along. I've had to deal with this before, and it's best just to keep these friendships seperate and try as much as possible not to associate or talk about those friends to the other. Karma is a b*tch! good luck!!
deffinatley not! im best friends with my other best friends enemy. we hav unique arguments tho. we argue about it all the time, but they hate eachother because one slept with the other brother. there was a massive age difference there as well. she was 13, and her brother was 17. anyways she freaked out but im still friends with both of them. its up to you who your friends with, you shuld make your own oppinion of people not just what people tell you..
goood luck xx
I wouldn't worry about it at all. You have all the rights in the world to be friends with who you want too. Just don't bring them together that's all. Do things separately with them so there is no hard feelings.
You have the right to be friends with whomever you wish. Obviously there is some jealousy which makes your friend say nasty things about her. You can make up your own mind.
well it depends on how your best friend is she might get jealous or mad
but your best friend cant tell you who to be friends with if you feel bad that your her friend then you shouldnt be her friend just discuss it over with your bff
Ur friend might get mad.
Just as long as u don't bring her around ur best friend.
But u should also talk 2 her see is she ok with it ?
one word=loyalty
been there done that and it sucks big time to be in between two different individuals
I think that it is your choice who you are friends with. If you want to be friends with this girl, then go for it! You may even be able to prove to your other friend that she's not as bad as she thinks. Maybe you can help her get over her problem with the other girl. Just make sure that you don't completely drop your best friend for this girl, because it's probably not worth losing your best friend over.
Hope this helps!Is it wrong to be friends with someone my best friend hates?
It isn't wrong that your friends with both of them. It isn't illegal for you to hang out with both of them. If they are both your friends than that's fine. It's your choice not hers. You have every right to be friends with both of them. The fight is between them, and you don't have to be in the middle of their fight. Good luck! I hope everything works out!
It depends. Ask your best friend what happened between them, and if she won't tell you, then just be friends with the other girl. Just stay out of the fights and don't let them talk about each other behind their backs to you. Explain to your best friend that you are only friends with her and she will always be your best friend.
But if she does tell you, it's your choice whether or not you should be her friend.
Hope this helps!
Blessings,
Dylan
People can change so much from elementary school to high school. They mature and are on there way to becoming mature young adults. If you like this person from the team and you want to know her better, then you owe it to yourself to do just that. I think you should find out for yourself just what kind of person she is and then make your decision. I would not let my best friend influence me. Think for yourself. If the new girl turns out to be a great person, then maybe explain that this girl has grown up and is really worth knowing to your best friend...maybe you can all be friends.
well depends. if she hates her for something genuine you should try stick by your friend but not hate your friends enimy. try keep out of it.theres no rule about not been able to be friends with your friends enermies. well if she doesnt like maybe she jelous that your friends with her and she may become over protective because she maybe affraid to loose you as a friendd because she may think because they hate each other she will try take you away from her as revenge. but overall i think you should just be friends with her and do what you truly belive and do it if your friend doesnt like maybe she doesnt even like you having any friends apart from her. just be friends with em both and keep a distance between them both like dont let them be close to each other or it might all end badly
hope it helps
x
no, it's not wrong. It's just that you and this friend share more in common and can get along. I've had to deal with this before, and it's best just to keep these friendships seperate and try as much as possible not to associate or talk about those friends to the other. Karma is a b*tch! good luck!!
deffinatley not! im best friends with my other best friends enemy. we hav unique arguments tho. we argue about it all the time, but they hate eachother because one slept with the other brother. there was a massive age difference there as well. she was 13, and her brother was 17. anyways she freaked out but im still friends with both of them. its up to you who your friends with, you shuld make your own oppinion of people not just what people tell you..
goood luck xx
I wouldn't worry about it at all. You have all the rights in the world to be friends with who you want too. Just don't bring them together that's all. Do things separately with them so there is no hard feelings.
You have the right to be friends with whomever you wish. Obviously there is some jealousy which makes your friend say nasty things about her. You can make up your own mind.
well it depends on how your best friend is she might get jealous or mad
but your best friend cant tell you who to be friends with if you feel bad that your her friend then you shouldnt be her friend just discuss it over with your bff
Ur friend might get mad.
Just as long as u don't bring her around ur best friend.
But u should also talk 2 her see is she ok with it ?
one word=loyalty
been there done that and it sucks big time to be in between two different individuals
How do you become someones friend on myspace if you dont know their email or last name?
i really need to become friends with someone on myspace but i dont know theyre email or last name. and i cant contact them in any way to get this info. can anyone help me?!?! its very important.
thank you.How do you become someones friend on myspace if you dont know their email or last name?
try sending them a message telling them to add you
if that doesnt work
have someone else thats their age send them a request and have them contact youHow do you become someones friend on myspace if you dont know their email or last name?
myspace tries to keep age groups separate - the line is 18 years old
if you are over 18 you arent allowed to add people under 18 unless you know them and vice versa
it's for your own protection
- Track down one of their friends
- Search by first name + location
- Search by school
thank you.How do you become someones friend on myspace if you dont know their email or last name?
try sending them a message telling them to add you
if that doesnt work
have someone else thats their age send them a request and have them contact youHow do you become someones friend on myspace if you dont know their email or last name?
myspace tries to keep age groups separate - the line is 18 years old
if you are over 18 you arent allowed to add people under 18 unless you know them and vice versa
it's for your own protection
- Track down one of their friends
- Search by first name + location
- Search by school
Is it hard to make new friends if you transfer schools?
I'm transferring to a new highschool soon and everyone there will already have their own group of friends. I'll have to get used to finding all my classes and get to know everyone.
It's going to be really tough to catch up with everything then find new friends. I'm wondering has anyone transferred schools in the 9th grade? Was it hard to find true friends??
And also...how do you become friends with someone?? Do you talk to them then ask them if you can sit with them at lunch?? Help? Is it hard to make new friends if you transfer schools?
Be yourself. Never change who you are to try and fit in. If your friends don't accept you for you, they're not really friends.
Make the first move. Anywhere, in the bathroom, near your locker, or at the water fountain, you can find someone that has things in common with you, all you need is to know how to approach them. Strike up a conversation, smile and compliment them, and, of course, introduce yourself and tell them where you came from! You never know where you can find a nice friend.
Yes, you can just ask them if they would mind you sitting with them.
Talk to them, be friendly, good luck!Is it hard to make new friends if you transfer schools?
At every school, there will be at least one or two groups that will invite you into theirs. On the first day of school, look for someone who is nice and friendly looking who sits by you, (I suggest to find this someone in your class right before lunch starts) So that you can just ask them if you can sit with them. I am sure that they will understand. :) Good luck :)
we moved around a lot as a kid and I never had any problems making friends in a new school.
you talk to them in class, you ask them about themselves, you try to find common interests.
no not at all!
I switched schools my 10th grade year, and it was actually easy for me to make new friends. My closest friends from that time (ones I still talk to, even now!) were in my art classes with me from grades 10-12.
Ways I met some of my new friends: chemistry class where we were lab partners, being seated at same table in art class, or sitting next to each other in class.
If you can, join some after school clubs or activities. That will be an easier way for you to make new friends as well.
You'll be amazed at how easy it is. It seems overwhelming at first. I was painfully shy my first day at my new school (I had transferred from a Catholic school where I was bullied, which made me feel painfully self-conscious), but the people in my classes were very nice and for the first time EVER in my remembered school life, I came home smiling from ear-to-ear that day :-)
Just be nice to everyone, and be yourself. You'll be making new friends before you know it :-)
It's going to be really tough to catch up with everything then find new friends. I'm wondering has anyone transferred schools in the 9th grade? Was it hard to find true friends??
And also...how do you become friends with someone?? Do you talk to them then ask them if you can sit with them at lunch?? Help? Is it hard to make new friends if you transfer schools?
Be yourself. Never change who you are to try and fit in. If your friends don't accept you for you, they're not really friends.
Make the first move. Anywhere, in the bathroom, near your locker, or at the water fountain, you can find someone that has things in common with you, all you need is to know how to approach them. Strike up a conversation, smile and compliment them, and, of course, introduce yourself and tell them where you came from! You never know where you can find a nice friend.
Yes, you can just ask them if they would mind you sitting with them.
Talk to them, be friendly, good luck!Is it hard to make new friends if you transfer schools?
At every school, there will be at least one or two groups that will invite you into theirs. On the first day of school, look for someone who is nice and friendly looking who sits by you, (I suggest to find this someone in your class right before lunch starts) So that you can just ask them if you can sit with them. I am sure that they will understand. :) Good luck :)
we moved around a lot as a kid and I never had any problems making friends in a new school.
you talk to them in class, you ask them about themselves, you try to find common interests.
no not at all!
I switched schools my 10th grade year, and it was actually easy for me to make new friends. My closest friends from that time (ones I still talk to, even now!) were in my art classes with me from grades 10-12.
Ways I met some of my new friends: chemistry class where we were lab partners, being seated at same table in art class, or sitting next to each other in class.
If you can, join some after school clubs or activities. That will be an easier way for you to make new friends as well.
You'll be amazed at how easy it is. It seems overwhelming at first. I was painfully shy my first day at my new school (I had transferred from a Catholic school where I was bullied, which made me feel painfully self-conscious), but the people in my classes were very nice and for the first time EVER in my remembered school life, I came home smiling from ear-to-ear that day :-)
Just be nice to everyone, and be yourself. You'll be making new friends before you know it :-)
How to become friends on face book?
i know it sounds weird and please don't ask why! lol its nothing bad. but how do you become really good friends with someone thru face book that you have no no idea who it is or ever met? without being freaky or crippy? please answerHow to become friends on face book?
add them and just go to facebook chat and just say stuff like heey :) and say whats up and stuff
dont message them too much cause then you'll seem annoying and creepy and pedophile like soo just keep it simple :)
and simply be nice
hope i helped :)How to become friends on face book?
add someone with your same full name and be like i added you because of that then say like whats up and stuff.long hair styles curly hair styles
add them and just go to facebook chat and just say stuff like heey :) and say whats up and stuff
dont message them too much cause then you'll seem annoying and creepy and pedophile like soo just keep it simple :)
and simply be nice
hope i helped :)How to become friends on face book?
add someone with your same full name and be like i added you because of that then say like whats up and stuff.
How do i become best friends with this girl.?
alright, well theres this girl in my gym glass that i really want to be close friends with, i think we'd have lots in common. her name is anna, im new in this school, so she has lots of friends that shes known forever. i hangout with her a lot, at lunch and everything. but im more friends with a girl that is her friend , i like her too shes nice. but how do i become closer friends with anna too? her best friend is a girl named katie. they hangout all the time. i dont want to bother anna and follow her everywhere. how do i become closer friends with her? shes in my gym class, im her only friend in that class. is there anything i can do? im a lil hesitant when it comes to saying things, so i can be a bit boring. i dont really know what to say or talk about. but i definitlely need a close friend, so i think shes nice so yea. how do you become friends with someone you want to ? thanksHow do i become best friends with this girl.?
your a dizzy wallnut so i suggest you dont play with hammers, xxxHow do i become best friends with this girl.?
gym, as her questions about herself like ';whos your first boyfriend, is he cute?! why you break up. omg, how horrible.'; stuff like that (: bring up connvos.
your a dizzy wallnut so i suggest you dont play with hammers, xxxHow do i become best friends with this girl.?
gym, as her questions about herself like ';whos your first boyfriend, is he cute?! why you break up. omg, how horrible.'; stuff like that (: bring up connvos.
How to become friends with the popular girl?
I joined high school this year so everyone was new and started to make friends with new people etc. The popular girl always wanted to be with me at the beginning of the school year and i liked her personnality too but i didnt really bother being with her cause i was desperate at makin a great first impression to teachers and stuff(im not nerdy). Then she thought i didnt like her and so became friends with someone else who i knew from my drama class and this person was always SO shy and because of this friendship she became really confident and cool and now everyone and the cool people love her. Now im hard on myself for not takin the opportunity to becoming friends with the girl who wanted to be mine in the first place. I would love to be popular but i want her friendship not her popularity really.
So I would like to know how to become very good friends with her and possibly her other friends,
P.S. Do you have any cool or funny phrases i could say to her when i see her in lessons ?
P.P.S. We re not friends but we re in good terms
P.P.P.S if you're answering to give me a lecture about me being shallow and stupid and its better not to be popular then stop now cause i obviously dont care
Thanks,, no rude comments pleaseHow to become friends with the popular girl?
confidence.......pure confidence...that is what wins the heart of the person you want to pursue...always....make no mistake!!! i promise if you just believe in yourself, go to this person and just be yourself....dont worry about what they think....even if they think you are an idiot.......you can be completely stupid and still be hot....look at john mayor....his voice is the only thing that gets him women...he is an ugly disgusting looking man.....its all about behavior and attidudeHow to become friends with the popular girl?
I was friends with a popular girl but all the populars are snobby most of the time . this girl I was friends with that was popular always blew me off , like in the halway she didnt say hi to me , so just stick to the regular friends .
be yourself.. dont be on the prowl for friends, what happens happens
So I would like to know how to become very good friends with her and possibly her other friends,
P.S. Do you have any cool or funny phrases i could say to her when i see her in lessons ?
P.P.S. We re not friends but we re in good terms
P.P.P.S if you're answering to give me a lecture about me being shallow and stupid and its better not to be popular then stop now cause i obviously dont care
Thanks,, no rude comments pleaseHow to become friends with the popular girl?
confidence.......pure confidence...that is what wins the heart of the person you want to pursue...always....make no mistake!!! i promise if you just believe in yourself, go to this person and just be yourself....dont worry about what they think....even if they think you are an idiot.......you can be completely stupid and still be hot....look at john mayor....his voice is the only thing that gets him women...he is an ugly disgusting looking man.....its all about behavior and attidudeHow to become friends with the popular girl?
I was friends with a popular girl but all the populars are snobby most of the time . this girl I was friends with that was popular always blew me off , like in the halway she didnt say hi to me , so just stick to the regular friends .
be yourself.. dont be on the prowl for friends, what happens happens
Why do a friend try to become cool with one of your friends?
I have a friend that I've known for years. I recently became friends with someone else and we would hang any and every day. We would also talk every night on the phone (not purposely). Me and my new friend became close and my old friend would point out how much I would hang with that new friend. I felt it was out of jealousy. I introduce the two so that it would be easier to hang with the two and now they have become close and playing games like 3-way calls but I'm not aware of the third person on the phone. The old friend saying things as though she is trying to set me up and lieing about there being someone else on the other line.I believe my old friend is trying to bring a wedge between my new friend and I. She believe she was once becoming a problem but hasnt stepped out the pic yet, now I'm on the verge of just letting them both go as a friend (friendship is too personal).Why do a friend try to become cool with one of your friends?
Ohh see, this is what she is trying to do probably.
Your old friend is probably jealous that you hang out with your new friend much. But now your old friend will make you seem bad to make you not be friends with your new friend. So then you and your old friend could be friends again.
It's common, the old friend wants you for themselves. Kind of possessive.
If this old friend is a guy = he might like you
If a girl = ?? i got no idea what goes in girls heads...
If I were you, i'd think things through before making the conclusion.
Talk to them both if you need too.
Well the girls comment below me pretty much sums it up...
Good luckWhy do a friend try to become cool with one of your friends?
ffriendship has its own way let it do whatever it wants if it is ur true friend then it will not do so again
Try to talk to both of ur friends. If u think ur old friend is creating a prob btw u n ur new frnd then tell ur new friend personally what u feel about ur old friend... so that she be alert next time ur old friend says something or do something against u in xreating problems btw both of u.
Also, talk to ur old friend and say u feel she is creating problems. If she denies it and acts the same way then decide who is more precious to u.. ur old frnd or ur new one and then dump one of them and hang on with one.
Suggestion: If two friends r precious to u never introduce them to eacother.. it creates problem and sometimes they become cool friends and ur out of the pic.
Ohh see, this is what she is trying to do probably.
Your old friend is probably jealous that you hang out with your new friend much. But now your old friend will make you seem bad to make you not be friends with your new friend. So then you and your old friend could be friends again.
It's common, the old friend wants you for themselves. Kind of possessive.
If this old friend is a guy = he might like you
If a girl = ?? i got no idea what goes in girls heads...
If I were you, i'd think things through before making the conclusion.
Talk to them both if you need too.
Well the girls comment below me pretty much sums it up...
Good luckWhy do a friend try to become cool with one of your friends?
ffriendship has its own way let it do whatever it wants if it is ur true friend then it will not do so again
Try to talk to both of ur friends. If u think ur old friend is creating a prob btw u n ur new frnd then tell ur new friend personally what u feel about ur old friend... so that she be alert next time ur old friend says something or do something against u in xreating problems btw both of u.
Also, talk to ur old friend and say u feel she is creating problems. If she denies it and acts the same way then decide who is more precious to u.. ur old frnd or ur new one and then dump one of them and hang on with one.
Suggestion: If two friends r precious to u never introduce them to eacother.. it creates problem and sometimes they become cool friends and ur out of the pic.
How do you become friends with your crush?
I'm kinda shy, but once I am friends with someone, I act like a different person. But the biggest problem is that whenever I have a crush, he is completely different from me. (In this case, he's ALWAYS out with friends) I see him as unapproachable not only because I like him, but also because he's that different and I don't know what exactly to say. I always think I'll end up looking weird, and it's hard to do something simple, like asking for homework help because my CLOSE friends are in the same class. And last but not least, I freeze up whenever I see him--I know, not a good thing. But I know I should say hi just for starters... is there anything I can do to calm down when I see him? Thanks! :-)How do you become friends with your crush?
I am exactly the same way around boys I like, like once I only ever spoke to my crush on Instant Messaging, I knew who he was because we went to the same school and everything, then he found out who I was and he said hi to me, I got all panicky and for a few weeks after everytime he said hello to me I pretended I was in a rush and walked off, he thought I never really liked him, but he spoke to me about it, now we're like best friends, all you have to do is just say hi every now and then, then build up the conversation, say something simple like 'hey, how are you?' then he will reply and you just keep it flowing, keep confident and you will get closer. Trust me.How do you become friends with your crush?
That i think sophie is great advice. i have the same problem as chocolate and i will try this. thanks
You don't want to be on the friends list. You want on the date list. Best way to NOT date her is to be on the friends list.
FRIENDS DON'T DATE FRIENDS. That's because both will lose other friends when and if you break up.
Walk up to him and ask him to help you with some problem you had with the homework or a test in the class. Tell him you know you could ask one of your friends for help, but then you just end up chatting and goofing off with them so you think it will be better to get someone your not so close to's help. Maybe that will break the ice some.
Well find out more about this guy. That way you can see he is human and not the greatest guy u will ever meet. The way all girls see their crush(most of the time) then find out what he likes to know if it is truely something you guys can talk about. You have to have some common ground. Are u friends with any of his friends? If so try hanging out with them more often. There is a chance that you could run into him somewhere and he can get to know u better. Know that you need to see if there is something you guys can talk about. You can't have a relationship if you there is too many silences unless it is because he feels awkword too. Good Luck and remember your time will come for him to notice you. And if not just start talking to him or u can find someone else that u know u can talk too.long hair styles curly hair styles
I am exactly the same way around boys I like, like once I only ever spoke to my crush on Instant Messaging, I knew who he was because we went to the same school and everything, then he found out who I was and he said hi to me, I got all panicky and for a few weeks after everytime he said hello to me I pretended I was in a rush and walked off, he thought I never really liked him, but he spoke to me about it, now we're like best friends, all you have to do is just say hi every now and then, then build up the conversation, say something simple like 'hey, how are you?' then he will reply and you just keep it flowing, keep confident and you will get closer. Trust me.How do you become friends with your crush?
That i think sophie is great advice. i have the same problem as chocolate and i will try this. thanks
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You don't want to be on the friends list. You want on the date list. Best way to NOT date her is to be on the friends list.
FRIENDS DON'T DATE FRIENDS. That's because both will lose other friends when and if you break up.
Walk up to him and ask him to help you with some problem you had with the homework or a test in the class. Tell him you know you could ask one of your friends for help, but then you just end up chatting and goofing off with them so you think it will be better to get someone your not so close to's help. Maybe that will break the ice some.
Well find out more about this guy. That way you can see he is human and not the greatest guy u will ever meet. The way all girls see their crush(most of the time) then find out what he likes to know if it is truely something you guys can talk about. You have to have some common ground. Are u friends with any of his friends? If so try hanging out with them more often. There is a chance that you could run into him somewhere and he can get to know u better. Know that you need to see if there is something you guys can talk about. You can't have a relationship if you there is too many silences unless it is because he feels awkword too. Good Luck and remember your time will come for him to notice you. And if not just start talking to him or u can find someone else that u know u can talk too.
I want to ask someone to become friends with benefits.?
Its clear that he wants to be this, but how do i push it to be that? I don't want a relationship. Neither does he. We just want sex.I want to ask someone to become friends with benefits.?
I think it is okay to do. In fact, the other day I talked to my ex boyfriend about it. We have made out a few times and done other things that we did in the relationship, hence the beginning of ';Friends with benefits.'; During out relationship we never had sex. We are both virgins and he is the one I trust. So, we are taking our friends with benefits to a new level . We've talked about it and set guidelines. Just make sure you are prepared emotionally/mentally for the repercussions. Also make sure that he understands that he is going to need to be there to talk to you later about it (if necessary) and that he is willing to take the proper measures to keep you safe. Life is about having fun and taking risks.I want to ask someone to become friends with benefits.?
As long as your positive that the other person wants it to. Because its like a huge insult to ask a random person that.
Anyway, surprise him with a kiss, like the beginning and a preview of what to come. And then explain the terms and conditions.
Wow..you very discrete..just be open and tell him. Two people that know what they want but they are scared to discuss it. Take the one step and break the ice..good luck
a few drinks always gets things going!
or just tell him.
I am looking for one too...knowing anyone? send it my way! *LOL*
I think it is okay to do. In fact, the other day I talked to my ex boyfriend about it. We have made out a few times and done other things that we did in the relationship, hence the beginning of ';Friends with benefits.'; During out relationship we never had sex. We are both virgins and he is the one I trust. So, we are taking our friends with benefits to a new level . We've talked about it and set guidelines. Just make sure you are prepared emotionally/mentally for the repercussions. Also make sure that he understands that he is going to need to be there to talk to you later about it (if necessary) and that he is willing to take the proper measures to keep you safe. Life is about having fun and taking risks.I want to ask someone to become friends with benefits.?
As long as your positive that the other person wants it to. Because its like a huge insult to ask a random person that.
Anyway, surprise him with a kiss, like the beginning and a preview of what to come. And then explain the terms and conditions.
Wow..you very discrete..just be open and tell him. Two people that know what they want but they are scared to discuss it. Take the one step and break the ice..good luck
a few drinks always gets things going!
or just tell him.
I am looking for one too...knowing anyone? send it my way! *LOL*
Becoming Friends With Someone?. (Guys. Not Gay!)?
Ok. There is a lad whos in my class in high school. I want to be mates with him coz he seems really canny (canny meens nice n cool lol) I only talk to him on msn aboot 10 mins a day n thts it so he barely knows me. Tell me how I can gradully become friends wif em. (not gay just reely bad at making new friends lol) Becoming Friends With Someone?. (Guys. Not Gay!)?
Just keep talking to him and maybe ask him to go hang out with you and some other friends.Becoming Friends With Someone?. (Guys. Not Gay!)?
You want to be ';mates'; with him?? WTF?? You Britts are strange. If you said that in the real world (i.e. the USA) people would call you a fag.
Oh and ';lad';? Who says lad?
mmnnnn this is the most undercover gayness Ive seen in a while
Just keep talking to him and maybe ask him to go hang out with you and some other friends.Becoming Friends With Someone?. (Guys. Not Gay!)?
You want to be ';mates'; with him?? WTF?? You Britts are strange. If you said that in the real world (i.e. the USA) people would call you a fag.
Oh and ';lad';? Who says lad?
mmnnnn this is the most undercover gayness Ive seen in a while
When you're becoming friends with someone and they're asking you questions...?
about what schools or jobs you had and stuff, but you dont want to talk about it, how do you say that without appearing shy or mean but still friendly and open? lol :(
ive opened up to so many people that became best friends only to lose them or they turned into enemies a year or two later and did more bad than good in my life. painful memories, plus it reminds me of therapy.When you're becoming friends with someone and they're asking you questions...?
You can give out the info. Its not like its your D.O.B or SS info. You can be friends and also maintain a personal barrier if youd like to call it that. Friends come and go, but the good ones are there to stay. For every dozen of baddies you get, one good one comes along to change all the rules.When you're becoming friends with someone and they're asking you questions...?
i think that talking about that kind of stuff wouldnt affect your relationship. you dont wanna keep things bottled up. if your becoming friends with someone wouldnt you wanna know that stuff about them? i think it depends on the type of person your talking to
i understand what you mean. just be honest about it...
tell em you'd like to be good friends but there are stuff you'd like to keep to yourself..
its harder than it sounds but honesty is always important
Just make something up and move on to something else. Like I'ld rather not talk about that, or something. Just dont shut down and get sad when its brought up. stay happy.
tell them youd rather not talk about it.
Just give short and sweet answers! Until you get to know them better. No harm :-)
ive opened up to so many people that became best friends only to lose them or they turned into enemies a year or two later and did more bad than good in my life. painful memories, plus it reminds me of therapy.When you're becoming friends with someone and they're asking you questions...?
You can give out the info. Its not like its your D.O.B or SS info. You can be friends and also maintain a personal barrier if youd like to call it that. Friends come and go, but the good ones are there to stay. For every dozen of baddies you get, one good one comes along to change all the rules.When you're becoming friends with someone and they're asking you questions...?
i think that talking about that kind of stuff wouldnt affect your relationship. you dont wanna keep things bottled up. if your becoming friends with someone wouldnt you wanna know that stuff about them? i think it depends on the type of person your talking to
i understand what you mean. just be honest about it...
tell em you'd like to be good friends but there are stuff you'd like to keep to yourself..
its harder than it sounds but honesty is always important
Just make something up and move on to something else. Like I'ld rather not talk about that, or something. Just dont shut down and get sad when its brought up. stay happy.
tell them youd rather not talk about it.
Just give short and sweet answers! Until you get to know them better. No harm :-)
I wrote a intro paragraph on a compare/contrast essay about 2 friends and i want how i can make it better?
Friends are companions that are with you to help you in life. When you become friends with someone, it is because you like to be around them and enjoy their company and you share similar characteristics. However, how do you know which friends to choose? Friends are usually the one鈥檚 that are there when you need them. I will compare two friends that I have and show what the difference between both of them is.I wrote a intro paragraph on a compare/contrast essay about 2 friends and i want how i can make it better?
I think it's perfect. What exactly do you want to make better? Why worry so much?I wrote a intro paragraph on a compare/contrast essay about 2 friends and i want how i can make it better?
Friends are companions that are with me to help me in the troubles of life itself . When you become friends with someone like this , it is because you know it to be true and enjoy their company and share similar characteristics, However, how do you know which friends to choose? Friends are usually the one鈥檚 that are there when I need them the most . I will compare two of my friends that I have and show what the difference between both of them
I think it's perfect. What exactly do you want to make better? Why worry so much?I wrote a intro paragraph on a compare/contrast essay about 2 friends and i want how i can make it better?
Friends are companions that are with me to help me in the troubles of life itself . When you become friends with someone like this , it is because you know it to be true and enjoy their company and share similar characteristics, However, how do you know which friends to choose? Friends are usually the one鈥檚 that are there when I need them the most . I will compare two of my friends that I have and show what the difference between both of them
How to make friends with someone you don't know?
Theres a girl in my school who i really like and i want to become friends with but I don't even talk to her or anything and was wondering is there any way i can become her friendHow to make friends with someone you don't know?
The simplest answer is by being friendly. This could be a smile, letting her in front of you in the line, holding the door open. Finding common ground is a good way. Maybe a weird teacher you can bond over your dislike for. Reaching out to people is easy if you are willing to take that first step. Good luck!How to make friends with someone you don't know?
Read Dale Carnegie - it helped me. People LOVE talking about themselves or their opinions or interests so ask questions - without sounding creepy!
Start with asking her if she's seen someone (teacher/your friend/etc) then introduce yourself. Later say hi and ask her something like ';had a good weekend?';
slowly. talk to her and gradually get to know her better, and let her get to know you.
sit with her at lunch or something
ask if she has a phone and text eachother
go for walks together
meet up at a park near your house
cheesy, but be true to yourself, be open, and don't take it personal if she rejects you. it just wasn't meant to be.
first start out talking to her, try to find out what she likes, minor things. after a while if she wants to talk you'll be friends.
ask someone 4 her phone number and then txt her as a secret admirer
The simplest answer is by being friendly. This could be a smile, letting her in front of you in the line, holding the door open. Finding common ground is a good way. Maybe a weird teacher you can bond over your dislike for. Reaching out to people is easy if you are willing to take that first step. Good luck!How to make friends with someone you don't know?
Read Dale Carnegie - it helped me. People LOVE talking about themselves or their opinions or interests so ask questions - without sounding creepy!
Start with asking her if she's seen someone (teacher/your friend/etc) then introduce yourself. Later say hi and ask her something like ';had a good weekend?';
slowly. talk to her and gradually get to know her better, and let her get to know you.
sit with her at lunch or something
ask if she has a phone and text eachother
go for walks together
meet up at a park near your house
cheesy, but be true to yourself, be open, and don't take it personal if she rejects you. it just wasn't meant to be.
first start out talking to her, try to find out what she likes, minor things. after a while if she wants to talk you'll be friends.
ask someone 4 her phone number and then txt her as a secret admirer
How to go from meeting someone to becoming friends?
I smile and say hi to people- sometimes make some small talk, but it never goes beyond that. Then you never see that person again. Can you give me some examples of what you talked about that led you to become friends (or more) with someone?
I'm looking for step by step instructions for dummies! :-)How to go from meeting someone to becoming friends?
all these are great answers. just open up a little and have fun about. but try being truthful with yourself first if you are friendly others will be friendly to youHow to go from meeting someone to becoming friends?
To go from aquaintance to friend, you need to find things that you can talk about. When you meet somebody and make small talk, ask about their interests, hobbies, likes, dislikes, etc. If you find something that you both agree on, keep talking about it and soon you may see that you have even more in common.
That's how I met my best friend and all my other friends.
It helps to become friends with people when you are around them a lot. You just talk about every day things like school or your job...family, pets etc. There are a multitude of things you can talk about. Try asking someone to go to the movies with you or something like that.
Hhhhmmmm - well, first of all you have to be yourself - secondly - you have interests, and you'll find someone with similar interests in time - friendship takes time to develop so please don't give up or feel as if you are alone - don't be afraid to express your point of view, be honest, remain open to different opinions, sometimes it may be better to be the listener and not the talker, and if you truly listen to others, you'll learn what they like or enjoy, or what they dislike or abhor.long hair styles curly hair styles
I'm looking for step by step instructions for dummies! :-)How to go from meeting someone to becoming friends?
all these are great answers. just open up a little and have fun about. but try being truthful with yourself first if you are friendly others will be friendly to youHow to go from meeting someone to becoming friends?
To go from aquaintance to friend, you need to find things that you can talk about. When you meet somebody and make small talk, ask about their interests, hobbies, likes, dislikes, etc. If you find something that you both agree on, keep talking about it and soon you may see that you have even more in common.
That's how I met my best friend and all my other friends.
It helps to become friends with people when you are around them a lot. You just talk about every day things like school or your job...family, pets etc. There are a multitude of things you can talk about. Try asking someone to go to the movies with you or something like that.
Hhhhmmmm - well, first of all you have to be yourself - secondly - you have interests, and you'll find someone with similar interests in time - friendship takes time to develop so please don't give up or feel as if you are alone - don't be afraid to express your point of view, be honest, remain open to different opinions, sometimes it may be better to be the listener and not the talker, and if you truly listen to others, you'll learn what they like or enjoy, or what they dislike or abhor.
How do you become REALLY close friends with someone you barely talk to? FAST!?
i know alot of people but there is this one person that i want to become real close friends with fast! like best friends, and now i barely talk to this person its like, hey wuts up, then thats it.
anybody got tips? please give me good ones! best one gets 10 points!How do you become REALLY close friends with someone you barely talk to? FAST!?
just go and tell them you want to become friends. talk to them as much as possible, hang out with them, talk to them on my space.How do you become REALLY close friends with someone you barely talk to? FAST!?
U can comliment the person and het hooked on a conversation (like clothes) of just tell her can we be friends i would really know u more (casually) and maybe u can be friends!
I donno it will help but give it a try!!
Good luck!!
uuuh, wtf? why do you wanna be a persons friend if you dont talk to them. are they hot or something? thats kinda shallow! whatever. first thing is you want to talk to them and then invite them over once you become closer and just take it from there! be yourself!
be nicer to the person, smile more often, say hi more often, kind gestures, and nice acts. but dont try too hard or else you'll push the person away. an dif the person asks why you are doing all that, just say you are being friendly. saying its because you want to be their friend might make them suspicious and you might lose them for good. if anything good is to come out of your efforts it eventually will.
you cannot make someone love you, all you can do is present yourself as a loveable person, the rest is up to them (and maybe fate)
anybody got tips? please give me good ones! best one gets 10 points!How do you become REALLY close friends with someone you barely talk to? FAST!?
just go and tell them you want to become friends. talk to them as much as possible, hang out with them, talk to them on my space.How do you become REALLY close friends with someone you barely talk to? FAST!?
U can comliment the person and het hooked on a conversation (like clothes) of just tell her can we be friends i would really know u more (casually) and maybe u can be friends!
I donno it will help but give it a try!!
Good luck!!
uuuh, wtf? why do you wanna be a persons friend if you dont talk to them. are they hot or something? thats kinda shallow! whatever. first thing is you want to talk to them and then invite them over once you become closer and just take it from there! be yourself!
be nicer to the person, smile more often, say hi more often, kind gestures, and nice acts. but dont try too hard or else you'll push the person away. an dif the person asks why you are doing all that, just say you are being friendly. saying its because you want to be their friend might make them suspicious and you might lose them for good. if anything good is to come out of your efforts it eventually will.
you cannot make someone love you, all you can do is present yourself as a loveable person, the rest is up to them (and maybe fate)
How do I become (or at least attempt to) make friends with someone in my class?
There is a person in my class that I'm a bit attracted to, and I'm not sure if they're into me, but it seems like there's a chance they may be.
The thing is, we've barely spoken a word to each other.
I want to become casual friends (at first at least) with this person, but I don't know how.
Please don't suggest that I just walk up to them and say hello. That will just make me seem weird. I need a reason to talk to this person, or some way I can approach them without coming across as a psycho stalker.
Can someone help me, please?How do I become (or at least attempt to) make friends with someone in my class?
You could always ask to borrow a pen or a pencil. Or to borrow some paper and say you forgot to bring either a pen, pencil or paper. Or, if you had missed a day of class, you could ask him what had happened in class and if you could look at his notes. These ideas usually work.How do I become (or at least attempt to) make friends with someone in my class?
Try and talk to that person. If you aren't sure on how, you can always start off by a smile or something like ';Hi';. That's possibly a good way to start. I mean, you're in the same class so it's not like you aren't going to smile to one an other or at least say a word. If that person is talking about something you know, join in. I know it's difficult to start a conversation with somebody you don't know but don't forget it's the same situation for them.
Good Luck.
The thing is, we've barely spoken a word to each other.
I want to become casual friends (at first at least) with this person, but I don't know how.
Please don't suggest that I just walk up to them and say hello. That will just make me seem weird. I need a reason to talk to this person, or some way I can approach them without coming across as a psycho stalker.
Can someone help me, please?How do I become (or at least attempt to) make friends with someone in my class?
You could always ask to borrow a pen or a pencil. Or to borrow some paper and say you forgot to bring either a pen, pencil or paper. Or, if you had missed a day of class, you could ask him what had happened in class and if you could look at his notes. These ideas usually work.How do I become (or at least attempt to) make friends with someone in my class?
Try and talk to that person. If you aren't sure on how, you can always start off by a smile or something like ';Hi';. That's possibly a good way to start. I mean, you're in the same class so it's not like you aren't going to smile to one an other or at least say a word. If that person is talking about something you know, join in. I know it's difficult to start a conversation with somebody you don't know but don't forget it's the same situation for them.
Good Luck.
How do I increase the space available for friends in DW6 Empires?
I currently have 3 friends, and when i become friends with someone new, it says to dismiss one friend. how do I keep more friends?How do I increase the space available for friends in DW6 Empires?
I came across that same issue myself. And even though there are those spaces on the bottom, you pretty much have to choose between either your new friend, or one of your old ones. You can only have three unless you become a ruler, in which case its still just three friends but you get to have officers under you. I suggest just picking the strongest new ones to replace your oldest pre-existing friends.
I came across that same issue myself. And even though there are those spaces on the bottom, you pretty much have to choose between either your new friend, or one of your old ones. You can only have three unless you become a ruler, in which case its still just three friends but you get to have officers under you. I suggest just picking the strongest new ones to replace your oldest pre-existing friends.
How long after you meet someone should you ask them on a date?
After you become friends with someone, normally how long do people start going out? How do two people transition from being friends to lovers without being awkward?How long after you meet someone should you ask them on a date?
2 weeks max.How long after you meet someone should you ask them on a date?
text him like every three days and then everyother day, then wait til he texts you first so he gets the hint that you like him then ask him to hang out like go to a movie or a group movie date or to go to a party with you
Just go for it.Fu*k it..
a week maybe
2 weeks max.How long after you meet someone should you ask them on a date?
text him like every three days and then everyother day, then wait til he texts you first so he gets the hint that you like him then ask him to hang out like go to a movie or a group movie date or to go to a party with you
Just go for it.Fu*k it..
a week maybe
Why do people become friends, for example, why are some people friends with Sean, he's just some guy isn't he
Why do people become friends with one another, is it common interests? We find them funny? We find them intelligent?
Do we try to become friends with someone who says nice things or builds us up, or sometimes helps us and corrects us when we are doing the wrong thing?
Does size or shape matter? Does eye color matter? Does it matter if the person has a hairy back or big arm muscles?
Do we care if that person can sing or not?
Do we care what IQ that person has?
Do we like curious people more than boring people?
Does how much money a person have matter?
Why would someone want to be friends with Sean, he's just some guy isn't he?
Would it matter his religious beliefs or political beliefs?
Would it matter what his favorite football team was?
Would it matter what kind of car he drives?
What would be the criteria people would use in determining if they wanted to be friends with just some guy, do people use different criteria?Why do people become friends, for example, why are some people friends with Sean, he's just some guy isn't he
hmm.. well, with me, usually people i end up being friends with have a sense of humor or at least don't mind that I do; I can laugh at most anything, including myself-
stuff like political beliefs never are a problem, because most people agree that they are all crooks anyway; Things like money and status, material stuff they have, none of that ever even comes to mind -
Why would someone want to be friends with Sean? Because when he communicates on the forum, his personality comes through in bright, vivid color. It feels like you already know him. He is one of the major contributors to making this section stop for a minute, take a deep breath, relax, maybe laugh at a joke -- this is a contribution that is more important than some may realize, because nobody is going to grow in any way at all if everybody is so tense that all they do is point fingers at each other. So, thats why I think being friends with Sean is cool. He is a breath of fresh air, when people are trying to verbally kill each other.Why do people become friends, for example, why are some people friends with Sean, he's just some guy isn't he
All the people I know are just some guy or some gal. It is the connections that we share that create a friendship and those connections can vary wildly.
More deeply, each of my friendships seems to fill a need that I have. My Y!A friends seem to fill the place of jovial thinkers. Yes you make me laugh but beyond that you help me examine the ';why'; of my beliefs. We may not arrive at the same answers but you help me to go deeper. Thank you, by the way, for keeping me from the mindlessness.
When choosing my friends, I don't have criteria that need to be met. I'm friends with people from all walks of life. There are some people out there who I just never can be friends with. Why, I'm not sure. We just don't click.
I tend to befriend people who have similar interests and beliefs, but I don't discount someone just because they are interested in something I'm not. For example, I'm a libertarian who typically votes the democratic ticket. Does that mean I can't be friends with a staunch republican? Not at all! In fact, I have several friends who are just that. Size, shape, eye color, wealth, etc. never factor in to my equation at all.
I care more about respect and traits like a good sense of humor more than I care about anything else. I respect the differences in each of my friends. We find common ground and move on from there.
I'm friends with different types of people, actually some of my friends don't get along with each other.
I'm friends with people for different reasons. It doesn't matter to me what their shape or size is, their eye color or a hairy back.
Of course curious people are more fun than boring people.
I'm friends with people that are just some guy...really it makes no difference to me, as long as we get along and have some form of common ground.
Of course, they have to be accepting of me, and who I am...as I am with them. I can be myself with all of my friends.
to be my friend you need to buy me things and tell me I'm pretty.
Hello Sean, so鈥?:)
It is because I Love everyone..no matter what or if they believe in the Lord or not..
For me there in No criteria..if anyone asks me to be their friend I am here for them.. :)
In Jesus Most Precious Name..
With Love..In Christ.. :)
So far, it seems that we need only share one common interest, and be civil toward one another- we don't even share the same interests... just similar.
I like Sean, however because of the personality that is displayed when sharing these interests. The level of intelligence shows through, and I can develop a feeling of kinship just through context and similarity to my own opinions... in other words, Sean may only look like text and a picture right now, but right now that's all that I need... however I think my current project may wind up assigning a voice to the text and pics... IE you may be hearing from me sometime within the next few days.
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Oh look! Another winner is going around thumbs downing people! Must be nice to be stupid..
Some common attributes of my friends - they make me laugh and they make me think. I can be myself around them, and they can do the same with me.
The most important thing, though, that all of my friends have in common...I would bend over backwards for those people, and they would do the same for me.
Heh hee, boy you wanted to save your points on this one...but since I do not do this Answers thing for points so I give some time to you. : )
I believe friendships form over time, but some rare occasion you can be friends instantly by circumstances. Like life and death, or birth of a child etc.
Funny is a good reason. To be funny or/and intelligent is relative.
I think that edification and friendly and corrective honesty walk hand in hand.
Appearance is not so big deal if all the other elements of friendship are there.
Singing and IQ are not problem normally.
I do not like nosy people but they need to be somehow interesting to be my friends.
Money is not that important in my friendships.
It depends on how available you make yourself for a friendship.
I do not sort my friends by religion, political view, or favorite sport or what kind of car they drive or if they even have a car.
I prefer people not to be obnoxious if they are my friends. Or at least all the time. I think it depends on how much you care and how much you want one to be a friend to someone. : )
Everybody has a different criteria.
Everybody also has a need to be wanted.
Some will bend over backwards to meet that need.
Some will care less not to have that need met.
Some will base that need on the needs of another.
Some will base that need on one's needs.
Some will base that need on nothing.
But all have the need to be wanted in one form or another!
i think different things matter to different people....i think having friends that have things in common with me, and are funny and kind are more important than whether they are smart or not.
and the internet makes it easier to see through all the bullshit sometimes because when you have anonymity, you are more free with your thoughts and opinions.
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Do we try to become friends with someone who says nice things or builds us up, or sometimes helps us and corrects us when we are doing the wrong thing?
Does size or shape matter? Does eye color matter? Does it matter if the person has a hairy back or big arm muscles?
Do we care if that person can sing or not?
Do we care what IQ that person has?
Do we like curious people more than boring people?
Does how much money a person have matter?
Why would someone want to be friends with Sean, he's just some guy isn't he?
Would it matter his religious beliefs or political beliefs?
Would it matter what his favorite football team was?
Would it matter what kind of car he drives?
What would be the criteria people would use in determining if they wanted to be friends with just some guy, do people use different criteria?Why do people become friends, for example, why are some people friends with Sean, he's just some guy isn't he
hmm.. well, with me, usually people i end up being friends with have a sense of humor or at least don't mind that I do; I can laugh at most anything, including myself-
stuff like political beliefs never are a problem, because most people agree that they are all crooks anyway; Things like money and status, material stuff they have, none of that ever even comes to mind -
Why would someone want to be friends with Sean? Because when he communicates on the forum, his personality comes through in bright, vivid color. It feels like you already know him. He is one of the major contributors to making this section stop for a minute, take a deep breath, relax, maybe laugh at a joke -- this is a contribution that is more important than some may realize, because nobody is going to grow in any way at all if everybody is so tense that all they do is point fingers at each other. So, thats why I think being friends with Sean is cool. He is a breath of fresh air, when people are trying to verbally kill each other.Why do people become friends, for example, why are some people friends with Sean, he's just some guy isn't he
All the people I know are just some guy or some gal. It is the connections that we share that create a friendship and those connections can vary wildly.
More deeply, each of my friendships seems to fill a need that I have. My Y!A friends seem to fill the place of jovial thinkers. Yes you make me laugh but beyond that you help me examine the ';why'; of my beliefs. We may not arrive at the same answers but you help me to go deeper. Thank you, by the way, for keeping me from the mindlessness.
When choosing my friends, I don't have criteria that need to be met. I'm friends with people from all walks of life. There are some people out there who I just never can be friends with. Why, I'm not sure. We just don't click.
I tend to befriend people who have similar interests and beliefs, but I don't discount someone just because they are interested in something I'm not. For example, I'm a libertarian who typically votes the democratic ticket. Does that mean I can't be friends with a staunch republican? Not at all! In fact, I have several friends who are just that. Size, shape, eye color, wealth, etc. never factor in to my equation at all.
I care more about respect and traits like a good sense of humor more than I care about anything else. I respect the differences in each of my friends. We find common ground and move on from there.
I'm friends with different types of people, actually some of my friends don't get along with each other.
I'm friends with people for different reasons. It doesn't matter to me what their shape or size is, their eye color or a hairy back.
Of course curious people are more fun than boring people.
I'm friends with people that are just some guy...really it makes no difference to me, as long as we get along and have some form of common ground.
Of course, they have to be accepting of me, and who I am...as I am with them. I can be myself with all of my friends.
to be my friend you need to buy me things and tell me I'm pretty.
Hello Sean, so鈥?:)
It is because I Love everyone..no matter what or if they believe in the Lord or not..
For me there in No criteria..if anyone asks me to be their friend I am here for them.. :)
In Jesus Most Precious Name..
With Love..In Christ.. :)
So far, it seems that we need only share one common interest, and be civil toward one another- we don't even share the same interests... just similar.
I like Sean, however because of the personality that is displayed when sharing these interests. The level of intelligence shows through, and I can develop a feeling of kinship just through context and similarity to my own opinions... in other words, Sean may only look like text and a picture right now, but right now that's all that I need... however I think my current project may wind up assigning a voice to the text and pics... IE you may be hearing from me sometime within the next few days.
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Oh look! Another winner is going around thumbs downing people! Must be nice to be stupid..
Some common attributes of my friends - they make me laugh and they make me think. I can be myself around them, and they can do the same with me.
The most important thing, though, that all of my friends have in common...I would bend over backwards for those people, and they would do the same for me.
Heh hee, boy you wanted to save your points on this one...but since I do not do this Answers thing for points so I give some time to you. : )
I believe friendships form over time, but some rare occasion you can be friends instantly by circumstances. Like life and death, or birth of a child etc.
Funny is a good reason. To be funny or/and intelligent is relative.
I think that edification and friendly and corrective honesty walk hand in hand.
Appearance is not so big deal if all the other elements of friendship are there.
Singing and IQ are not problem normally.
I do not like nosy people but they need to be somehow interesting to be my friends.
Money is not that important in my friendships.
It depends on how available you make yourself for a friendship.
I do not sort my friends by religion, political view, or favorite sport or what kind of car they drive or if they even have a car.
I prefer people not to be obnoxious if they are my friends. Or at least all the time. I think it depends on how much you care and how much you want one to be a friend to someone. : )
Everybody has a different criteria.
Everybody also has a need to be wanted.
Some will bend over backwards to meet that need.
Some will care less not to have that need met.
Some will base that need on the needs of another.
Some will base that need on one's needs.
Some will base that need on nothing.
But all have the need to be wanted in one form or another!
i think different things matter to different people....i think having friends that have things in common with me, and are funny and kind are more important than whether they are smart or not.
and the internet makes it easier to see through all the bullshit sometimes because when you have anonymity, you are more free with your thoughts and opinions.
I like sean because he has good ideas for fertility rituals!!
How to make friends with someone with only their phone number?
hey people, i hope this isnt a creepy question but there is this girl that i would really like to be friends with and i want to put in an effort to be friends with her but i only have her phone number and i dont really see her in my neighborhood even though she lives like a few blocks away so what can i do to either aproach her by text or whatever, just become friends?How to make friends with someone with only their phone number?
A phone number is a great start. Call her up and be like, 'lets chill'. Lets go for a walk, or play NHL 09 on the PS3. Something to get the ball rolling. Once you get to know her, it will be smooth sailing.How to make friends with someone with only their phone number?
Talking. (:
Simple as that.
Answer mine?
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Call her and tell her to meet up with you somewhere.Face to Face
if ur not friends with her.....howd u get her #?
A phone number is a great start. Call her up and be like, 'lets chill'. Lets go for a walk, or play NHL 09 on the PS3. Something to get the ball rolling. Once you get to know her, it will be smooth sailing.How to make friends with someone with only their phone number?
Talking. (:
Simple as that.
Answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Call her and tell her to meet up with you somewhere.Face to Face
if ur not friends with her.....howd u get her #?
How do I re-friend someone who used to be my friend and his friends?
Ok. so i was once friends with this guy, like i used to go to his house, but we're not friends anymore, i guess we just stopped talking to eachother. I haven't been to his house in like 10 years. He is more of the popular type of person and I want to re-friend him and become friends with the group of people he hangs out with. I'm not very good at making a long conversation. I'm in early high school. how do i re-friend him and the people he hangs out with?How do I re-friend someone who used to be my friend and his friends?
you dont really need to make ';long conversation';
start with small talk
haha.
be like, whats up? howve you been?
etc.
theres plenty to talk about with someone you havent seen in a whileHow do I re-friend someone who used to be my friend and his friends?
-Just don't make it awkward and act like you are trying to fit in.
Simply say ';hey how have you been and i miss hanging out with you'; get his number or something, and sooner or later, his friends will start hanging out with you once they know you're with him. Making convos is not my specialty, I'm sorry.
you dont really need to make ';long conversation';
start with small talk
haha.
be like, whats up? howve you been?
etc.
theres plenty to talk about with someone you havent seen in a whileHow do I re-friend someone who used to be my friend and his friends?
-Just don't make it awkward and act like you are trying to fit in.
Simply say ';hey how have you been and i miss hanging out with you'; get his number or something, and sooner or later, his friends will start hanging out with you once they know you're with him. Making convos is not my specialty, I'm sorry.
How could i become best friends with someone who already has one?!?
So this is really hard to explain and it's a really weird situation I'm in but i need your help. Alright so i decided i needed a best friend that i can do pretty much everything with, I had one but then i moved schools and he started acting all weird. So the problem starts when the kid i want to be bestfriends with already has one, right now me and my friend are good friends but i want to change that to best. We pretty much have everything in common. I wish the three of us(me, the kid i want to be bestfriends with,his bestfriend) could be all bestfriends .Any ideas on how i could be bestfreinds with this kid, im tired of not being able to have that one person you can tell everything to or do everything with, i need that support to be there.How could i become best friends with someone who already has one?!?
Expand you horizons you don't have to be best friends just with one person get to know and spend time with different people that what I do. I have friends that have different interest so I do things with different ones depending on what the occasion is. If you do want to be friends with these guys then just start asking them to hang out. Tell your friend that you want to hang out with him but that it will be cool to bring his friend along.
Expand you horizons you don't have to be best friends just with one person get to know and spend time with different people that what I do. I have friends that have different interest so I do things with different ones depending on what the occasion is. If you do want to be friends with these guys then just start asking them to hang out. Tell your friend that you want to hang out with him but that it will be cool to bring his friend along.
How do I become good friends with someone I recently lost as a good friend?
About 2 months ago, there was this girl that I hung out with every weekend and was pretty close to. Then, we just stopped hanging out. Our friendship just slowed died down more and more. We are still friends, but not the way we used to be. Her best friend is also one of my best friends. I want to invite her to hang out with us sometime, but I don't think her opinion of me at the moment is very good. What can I do to restore our friendship to how it was before?How do I become good friends with someone I recently lost as a good friend?
well maybe yu should call her up; and ask her to meet yu somewhere, so yu can just tlk everything out, and gently explained wht happened and why it happened. be totally honest with her; and tht will lead her to be honest with yu. im sure not everything is all of your fault. buh tell her tht yu feel bad or sad because yu and her dont communicte they way yu did before. also tell her how much she means to yu, and tht your life feels weird, without her in it. buh it was kind of messed up tht yu took her bestfriend to prom after she asked yu.. to make the situaution better, yu should have just went solo! buh hey we all make mistakes, now this is your chance to patch things bck up with her. i mean she must have been really hurt when yu went out with her bestfriend... i hope this advice works. try to be as gentle and mature about this situaution when yu decide to tlk to her, so tht she can see yu have became a better person over the timeperiod, tht yu havent tlked to her.How do I become good friends with someone I recently lost as a good friend?
Honestly that's a pretty crappy thing to do to her. I don't blame her for turning you down. May be now you know what your losing . A true friend.
Having said that. If friendship is what your after and nothing more. Then do what it takes to win her over. That is , if she means that much to you. All is not lost. But true friends are hard to find.
well maybe yu should call her up; and ask her to meet yu somewhere, so yu can just tlk everything out, and gently explained wht happened and why it happened. be totally honest with her; and tht will lead her to be honest with yu. im sure not everything is all of your fault. buh tell her tht yu feel bad or sad because yu and her dont communicte they way yu did before. also tell her how much she means to yu, and tht your life feels weird, without her in it. buh it was kind of messed up tht yu took her bestfriend to prom after she asked yu.. to make the situaution better, yu should have just went solo! buh hey we all make mistakes, now this is your chance to patch things bck up with her. i mean she must have been really hurt when yu went out with her bestfriend... i hope this advice works. try to be as gentle and mature about this situaution when yu decide to tlk to her, so tht she can see yu have became a better person over the timeperiod, tht yu havent tlked to her.How do I become good friends with someone I recently lost as a good friend?
Honestly that's a pretty crappy thing to do to her. I don't blame her for turning you down. May be now you know what your losing . A true friend.
Having said that. If friendship is what your after and nothing more. Then do what it takes to win her over. That is , if she means that much to you. All is not lost. But true friends are hard to find.
How you become best friends with someone you like so much but they found someone else to replace you?
the girl he is now dating has the same name as me...How you become best friends with someone you like so much but they found someone else to replace you?
It's probably not a good idea to be best friends with a guy you like who has a girlfriend. You will only wind up getting hurt.
It's probably not a good idea to be best friends with a guy you like who has a girlfriend. You will only wind up getting hurt.
How to become better friends with someone?
I have a friend who i met a few weeks ago,
i really like her, she's one of the nicest people ive ever met
but sometimes i feel like i can't think of anythin to say in a conversation!
one of the things that made me want to be her friend is that she is the same ethnicity as me
and ther aren't many people around who are, that id be friends with.
and i think if i was to tell her about the fact i can understand and read+write a bit of our language she'd be interested about that and also it'd be something we could talk about,
but i cant just bring it up without it sounding really stupid.
anyway i need some ideas for conversation,
and also if anyone can think of things i can do or say to indicate what i'm trying to tell her about who i am?
thankyou :)How to become better friends with someone?
ask her what she likes to do, her favorite music, etc.
then make an effort to learn about her interests so you'll have things in common.
share your interests, perhaps she'd be interested in learning more about your interests, therefor having more in common.
ask her if there is something she'd like to do but has no one to do it with. cooking classes, book reading clubs, etc, etc
good luck!
yahoo im: iggy_monHow to become better friends with someone?
umm.. do you have any mutual hobbies? Do you both read certain books or like certain films? Sure, go ahead and start with the cultural link, ask how she relates to your culture, etc. But hey - don't isolate yourself just in that friendship just because she's the same ethnicity as you. Try to branch out and make more friends too..
well i would just like ask here how is ur day and just ask her wat her favorite classes are and how is she doing and just some simple things like that that really count i now that i have that same problem as well its like my mind goes blank and i cant really think of anything else to saylong hair styles curly hair styles
i really like her, she's one of the nicest people ive ever met
but sometimes i feel like i can't think of anythin to say in a conversation!
one of the things that made me want to be her friend is that she is the same ethnicity as me
and ther aren't many people around who are, that id be friends with.
and i think if i was to tell her about the fact i can understand and read+write a bit of our language she'd be interested about that and also it'd be something we could talk about,
but i cant just bring it up without it sounding really stupid.
anyway i need some ideas for conversation,
and also if anyone can think of things i can do or say to indicate what i'm trying to tell her about who i am?
thankyou :)How to become better friends with someone?
ask her what she likes to do, her favorite music, etc.
then make an effort to learn about her interests so you'll have things in common.
share your interests, perhaps she'd be interested in learning more about your interests, therefor having more in common.
ask her if there is something she'd like to do but has no one to do it with. cooking classes, book reading clubs, etc, etc
good luck!
yahoo im: iggy_monHow to become better friends with someone?
umm.. do you have any mutual hobbies? Do you both read certain books or like certain films? Sure, go ahead and start with the cultural link, ask how she relates to your culture, etc. But hey - don't isolate yourself just in that friendship just because she's the same ethnicity as you. Try to branch out and make more friends too..
well i would just like ask here how is ur day and just ask her wat her favorite classes are and how is she doing and just some simple things like that that really count i now that i have that same problem as well its like my mind goes blank and i cant really think of anything else to say
How do i make friends with someone i ignored before?
i go to a small school where everyone knows everyone. of course people have their own groups of friends and kinda ignore other people. but how do u become friends with someone if u kinda ignored them before, without impossing in on them and their group of friends?How do i make friends with someone i ignored before?
Try taking some candy or something and sharing it. They might see you in a different light.How do i make friends with someone i ignored before?
Say you are sorry for ignoring the person and ask for a new start and hopefully you and that person can build a new friendship together!
To be a friend you have to show yourself friendly. I don't know if they will want to be around someone like you.
Try taking some candy or something and sharing it. They might see you in a different light.How do i make friends with someone i ignored before?
Say you are sorry for ignoring the person and ask for a new start and hopefully you and that person can build a new friendship together!
To be a friend you have to show yourself friendly. I don't know if they will want to be around someone like you.
On facebook, how do you not let friends know that you are now friends with someone?
like when you become friends with someone , it shows up on all of your friends newsfeeds. Where are the settings to make that private?
thanksOn facebook, how do you not let friends know that you are now friends with someone?
If you delete the post on your profile, that states that you are now friends with someone, then your friends will not be informed of your new connection.On facebook, how do you not let friends know that you are now friends with someone?
delete the post before someone sees it .
or go to preferences and change ur privacy settings
Your friends can see everything you're doing, EVERYTHING!!!!!
unfortunately there isnt ... but anyway they could see u have that person as a friend by seeing your FRIENDS LIST
I don't think there are any.
thanksOn facebook, how do you not let friends know that you are now friends with someone?
If you delete the post on your profile, that states that you are now friends with someone, then your friends will not be informed of your new connection.On facebook, how do you not let friends know that you are now friends with someone?
delete the post before someone sees it .
or go to preferences and change ur privacy settings
Your friends can see everything you're doing, EVERYTHING!!!!!
unfortunately there isnt ... but anyway they could see u have that person as a friend by seeing your FRIENDS LIST
I don't think there are any.
How to become closer with people, become friends?
i find it hard to, but i wanna make sure that i am friedns with them, its hard though becasue they chill with poeple i normally dont talk to, also i find that people who talk and become mroe social make friedns easy, but i feel that talking alot makes it worse too, i need help:( and tips to becoming friends with someone, cuz i dont have many friendsHow to become closer with people, become friends?
awww frankie i feel the same way. i guesse ppl attract to friendlines and smiles. but realy i dont know bc i have the same issues.
awww frankie i feel the same way. i guesse ppl attract to friendlines and smiles. but realy i dont know bc i have the same issues.
How do I become better friends with someone?
I'm a guy, she's a girl (if that makes a difference, tell me if it does). Well I talk to her a lot to make our friendship better, stronger. But after that I never feel like it does anything. I'm a really funny guy and I make her laugh a lot, but after that it just feels like nothing happened. I also kind of have a crush on her. So I just want to be really good friends and get to know I lot about her before I try anything. I've tried a lot of things, but nothing happens. So, how do I become better friends with her?How do I become better friends with someone?
so i just read a whole book on this stuff and im currently writing a paper on it..
this is all from FRIENDSHIP FACTOR by alan loy mcginnes:
ways to deepen your relationships:
1.cultivate transperancy - we like ppl who reveal themselves to us
2. dare to talk about your affection - dont freak her out though
3. learn the gestures of love - give gifts, touch, love is a verb
4. create space in a friendship- friends give you roots for comfort and wings for freedom.
5. the interested are interesting - be a good listener and make plenty of eye contact!
6. go easy on criticism and when you compliment someone, be sincere.
7. talk freely about your feelings
8. when you get in fights, talk about how you feel... dont go off with ';i hate when you do this'; pointing fingers = no no
9. be open with them, and show that you care!
10. be yourself and dont go like a robot and these little guidelines.. love a lot!!
oh and harry on harry and sally said that ';men and women cant ever be friends'; i think that's not true.. read this book (friendship factor) and you will see why.. its a short easy to read book!
hope this helps! sorry so long!How do I become better friends with someone?
Talk talk talk talk talk to her more.
Okay, here's the thing: the reason she's so ';buddy buddy'; with this other guy is because she knows him and feels comfortable with him.
You need to open up and start talking to her and asking her questions. Show her you're interested in what she's talking about. Try to find some common interests.
Pretty soon, you'll also be the one she's yelling ';hi'; to and hugging ... and who knows, it may just turn into a better friendship. :)
Good luck. Hope this helps.
try wering something she will notice and just try to fit in with what she and her friends are talking about
go out with her... and im not refering to ';going out'; i just mean hang out with her and watch movies or whatevr
To be honest i am like you i got a friend who i wana be close friends with and i am and i only known her a month and you wana know what i did? i was myself thats all, im a helpful caring kinda guy, i make her laugh like u do with urs and i let her know that im always there for her whenever she has a problem and that i will try help her in anyway i can and its the truth i will and within this month i am one of her closest friends and she has told me stuff she hasnt told her best friend of 4 years, just be yourself and be there for her when she needs you, let her know that because sometimes they need to hear it and she will respect the fact she can trust you with alot and thats how better friendships are formed, good luck mate.
ASK HER OUT!
LOL
have u heard the term ';flirting';
Dee-Duh-Dee
just try to be nice to her give her complements
well there's this guy that i'm friends with, since 4th grade. we don't have a crush on each other by any means, but we're really good friends. making me laugh definitely helps. he's a skater. he's really smart and if he doesn't like something he won't go along with it cuz it seems ';cool.'; he's very easy to talk to and be around and he's just very trustworthy. I feel like i can talk to him about anything and he knows what's wrong without me having to say anything. make her comfortable around you!
so i just read a whole book on this stuff and im currently writing a paper on it..
this is all from FRIENDSHIP FACTOR by alan loy mcginnes:
ways to deepen your relationships:
1.cultivate transperancy - we like ppl who reveal themselves to us
2. dare to talk about your affection - dont freak her out though
3. learn the gestures of love - give gifts, touch, love is a verb
4. create space in a friendship- friends give you roots for comfort and wings for freedom.
5. the interested are interesting - be a good listener and make plenty of eye contact!
6. go easy on criticism and when you compliment someone, be sincere.
7. talk freely about your feelings
8. when you get in fights, talk about how you feel... dont go off with ';i hate when you do this'; pointing fingers = no no
9. be open with them, and show that you care!
10. be yourself and dont go like a robot and these little guidelines.. love a lot!!
oh and harry on harry and sally said that ';men and women cant ever be friends'; i think that's not true.. read this book (friendship factor) and you will see why.. its a short easy to read book!
hope this helps! sorry so long!How do I become better friends with someone?
Talk talk talk talk talk to her more.
Okay, here's the thing: the reason she's so ';buddy buddy'; with this other guy is because she knows him and feels comfortable with him.
You need to open up and start talking to her and asking her questions. Show her you're interested in what she's talking about. Try to find some common interests.
Pretty soon, you'll also be the one she's yelling ';hi'; to and hugging ... and who knows, it may just turn into a better friendship. :)
Good luck. Hope this helps.
try wering something she will notice and just try to fit in with what she and her friends are talking about
go out with her... and im not refering to ';going out'; i just mean hang out with her and watch movies or whatevr
To be honest i am like you i got a friend who i wana be close friends with and i am and i only known her a month and you wana know what i did? i was myself thats all, im a helpful caring kinda guy, i make her laugh like u do with urs and i let her know that im always there for her whenever she has a problem and that i will try help her in anyway i can and its the truth i will and within this month i am one of her closest friends and she has told me stuff she hasnt told her best friend of 4 years, just be yourself and be there for her when she needs you, let her know that because sometimes they need to hear it and she will respect the fact she can trust you with alot and thats how better friendships are formed, good luck mate.
ASK HER OUT!
LOL
have u heard the term ';flirting';
Dee-Duh-Dee
just try to be nice to her give her complements
well there's this guy that i'm friends with, since 4th grade. we don't have a crush on each other by any means, but we're really good friends. making me laugh definitely helps. he's a skater. he's really smart and if he doesn't like something he won't go along with it cuz it seems ';cool.'; he's very easy to talk to and be around and he's just very trustworthy. I feel like i can talk to him about anything and he knows what's wrong without me having to say anything. make her comfortable around you!
How to become better friends with someone from another country?
So I met this guy who lives in Europe (and I know for a fact he's my age). He said he has a facebook but won't add me because he doesn't know me well enough yet. So I'm just wondering how I could become better friends with him, even though we are a thousand miles from talking in person? Also, I sent him a message on MSN and haven't gotten a reply so I was thinking about sending another, but I don't want him to think I'm weird.
And I've posted this before and all people said was I was gay and a stalker, so I'm going to get that out of the way now and say I'm neither. I just want a friend from a different country.How to become better friends with someone from another country?
Travel to another country
And I've posted this before and all people said was I was gay and a stalker, so I'm going to get that out of the way now and say I'm neither. I just want a friend from a different country.How to become better friends with someone from another country?
Travel to another country
How do you become better friends with someone you like but rarely get to talk to?
Well okay, I always had this doubt this guy might have liked me at the beginning of 9th cuz he always picked on me (in a friendly way) and said hi to me a lot. And I guess I kind of liked him back, but since I'm not allowed to date, there wasn't much I could do, so I just secretly liked it when he picked on me. But then he started hanging out with all the drama kids during the 2nd semester of 9th grade and since I only had one class with him, we didn't really talk as much. So 10th grade is almost over and I was starting to get over him but then I recently saw one of his shows and saw him there so I finally go a chance to talk to him a little but it's all coming back now. And we both hang out with totally different people so we never get a chance to talk. And he's one of those kinds of guys who always hangs out with girls so that makes it even worse. All I really want to do is just become better friends with him but it makes it harder when he's already got a bunch of best friends who are girls, who I don't even talk to, so we barely have any mutual friends. Plus should I tell him I like him, over Facebook cuz I'd never get a chance to talk to him alone cuz he's always surrounded by his drama friends....I mean I guess it wouldn't matter cuz I can't date anyways but just to let him know? Gahhh....I feel so confused and lost!How do you become better friends with someone you like but rarely get to talk to?
I would message him on facebook asking if you could hang out on person-Telling someone you like them over Facebook isn't a good idea..How do you become better friends with someone you like but rarely get to talk to?
Just ask him straight up if he wants to be your friend he may or may not thing your asking him out but let him know your not asking him out just asking if he wanna be friends with you that's how I met my best friend and he's so nice to me I'm so mean to him but that's because i dont trust a word he says I know it sounds stupid but he knows I been through things with guys in the past that didn't go well at all so he understands try not to get jealous when he's around girls a lot when you get the chance talk to him I don't talk to my best friend everyday but when I do we talk a lot and he flirts with me don't be shy and good lucklong hair styles curly hair styles
I would message him on facebook asking if you could hang out on person-Telling someone you like them over Facebook isn't a good idea..How do you become better friends with someone you like but rarely get to talk to?
Just ask him straight up if he wants to be your friend he may or may not thing your asking him out but let him know your not asking him out just asking if he wanna be friends with you that's how I met my best friend and he's so nice to me I'm so mean to him but that's because i dont trust a word he says I know it sounds stupid but he knows I been through things with guys in the past that didn't go well at all so he understands try not to get jealous when he's around girls a lot when you get the chance talk to him I don't talk to my best friend everyday but when I do we talk a lot and he flirts with me don't be shy and good luck
How to become better friends with someone?
There's a girl that i've only met twice that i want to become better friends with. (not sure if you can really answer this question but hopefully you can help! :) ) i'm friends with her on facebook and have only talked to her once through FB. i'm following her on twitter and she's following me so she knows who i am. She is good friends with some of my friends, also and she is my friends cousin (thats how i met her) we live near each other and she goes to a school that plays my school in sports. I want to build our friendship without seeming desperate OR ANNOYING!! lol :) i hope you can help..please NO MEAN COMMENTS OR HATERS!!
Thank You SOO much! I appreciate it! :)
P.S. yes..i have friends :) and NOT LESIBIAN!! it seems like i have alot in common with her and would like to get to know her better! please give ideas on what to do.How to become better friends with someone?
Just ask her to go shopping, or the movies, or whatever. You go one place together that you are both interested in and boom! you do it again, and again, then you do something else, then you are best buds!
Thank You SOO much! I appreciate it! :)
P.S. yes..i have friends :) and NOT LESIBIAN!! it seems like i have alot in common with her and would like to get to know her better! please give ideas on what to do.How to become better friends with someone?
Just ask her to go shopping, or the movies, or whatever. You go one place together that you are both interested in and boom! you do it again, and again, then you do something else, then you are best buds!
How do you become close friends with someone?
okk this sounds weirdd butt i have this girls myspacee andd we have a lot in common and i thinkk we would make good friendss..butt how do i get to knoo her moree? i think it would sound weird if i tell her to hang out with me oneday because she doesnt really know me like that...helpp andd thankxx!How do you become close friends with someone?
Uh maybe you should start to talk to her as in the phone and then start showing care for herHow do you become close friends with someone?
Be There for Her that is how I did it and it has worked for me Most of the time
Good Luck
Uh maybe you should start to talk to her as in the phone and then start showing care for herHow do you become close friends with someone?
Be There for Her that is how I did it and it has worked for me Most of the time
Good Luck
How do you become BEST friends with someone?
i have this friend at school (we're in 10th grade) and basically i consider her to be my best friend. we're always together at school like walking around talking and stuff even when we're not with other friends of ours. i talk to her about basically everything and she does the same thing. the problem is, i don't know if she considers me to be her best friend. i am the friend she talks to the most, except for this girl who lives in her neighborhood. the girl is two years younger than us but she has a very outgoing personality and since i'm more quiet she's probably more fun to be with. the thing is my friend is constantly hanging out with her and when i hang out with her it's always to do something specific, like seeing a movie or getting out nails done. but i want to spend the night at her house and have her sleepover and just hang out more casually like best friends do, you know? that's what she does with that other girl, although the other girl has her own best friend so it's not like i'm competing with her.
i feel weird about like just inviting her to spend the night cause i'm afraid she'll be bored since i don't live in a neighborhood and there isn't much to do at my house. i was thinking maybe i could invite her and another friend of ours to spend the night so it will be more fun, and then over time just her. good idea or not?
okay, i realize this is stupid to think about and that i seem like kind of a loser lol. most people don't care about stuff like this but i do. it's just that i'm a shy person and i don't have a ton of friends at all. and i feel kind of lonely on the weekends because even when i go do stuff with friends it feels like such a short time and then i'm home again. i want someone who i'm like constantly with almost like a sister, just like a best friend would be. please be nice :)
sorry for the length, but do you have any advice? thanks in advance!How do you become BEST friends with someone?
just ask her to sleep over. its really that simple. just invite her to hang out and do whatever. She already likes spending time with you. Just spend more time together and youll get to be better friends. And if you trust her with personal stuff she'll trust you with personal stuff and you guys will get closer.How do you become BEST friends with someone?
u dont TRY for it to be real it has to ome naturally......TRUST ME
You don't seem like a loser at all, don't put yourself down :) If you open up and trust the other with secrets, then chances are they're more likely to take you seriously? Or you could try organising stuff with all three of you, so you get to know both of them more, then you could all sort of casually hang out together. Trust is a big thing in best friends, and once you have that well established your'e on your way and all you have to do is give it time. good luck :)
The only way to know if she feel that way is dropping a hint. You've been a fantastic friend! Or when her birthday comes round, you can sign your best friend. Or you can ask her, will you be my best friend and sees what she says. I hope she consider you the same becos you sound like a nice sensitive person. Invite her and some friends round, it's always more fun having a bunch of friends. Try not to think you are boring becos otherwise you wouldn't have friends, would you. Remember, everyone is different.
k your not a loser for a first.... yes it would be a good idea to invite her over first then other friends. if you dont have myspace or facebook get 1.... talk to her more on those sites if she has 1. i have a friend on facebook and i've only known him for 4 days and were best friends.... were both 13 and he got a girl pregnant and she was 15... now he asked me to be god father if possible. and i said yes i would gladly be godfather.... wht i think is u people should share more personal things in life like who u like.... all ths is in my opinion... hope it helps(:
Giiiirrrllll ! Lol. Don't worry about it, even if she doesn't consider you her best friend you are still the one she goes to talk to. So once the fun has worn off the other girl You'll still be there. %26amp; when she has a problem she'll talk to you. So ur more important than the simple label of a best friend. %26amp; as far as slepovers and stuff go, they can be fun with nothing, me %26amp; my best friend are I think everything ur saying u want. We don't go more than 2 days without seeing each other %26amp; when we don't see each other we call or txt. But it all fell into place, just blare some music dance like crazy people,have a picture night, do make overs like different ppl or styles, we've done the scene look, emo, goth, prep, we go for walks, cut each others hair, look up new bands, prank calls, bake, have movie nights, (themed of course) but it all happens in time. If u want more ideas just message me. Wow I am sorry this is so long. Lol
i feel weird about like just inviting her to spend the night cause i'm afraid she'll be bored since i don't live in a neighborhood and there isn't much to do at my house. i was thinking maybe i could invite her and another friend of ours to spend the night so it will be more fun, and then over time just her. good idea or not?
okay, i realize this is stupid to think about and that i seem like kind of a loser lol. most people don't care about stuff like this but i do. it's just that i'm a shy person and i don't have a ton of friends at all. and i feel kind of lonely on the weekends because even when i go do stuff with friends it feels like such a short time and then i'm home again. i want someone who i'm like constantly with almost like a sister, just like a best friend would be. please be nice :)
sorry for the length, but do you have any advice? thanks in advance!How do you become BEST friends with someone?
just ask her to sleep over. its really that simple. just invite her to hang out and do whatever. She already likes spending time with you. Just spend more time together and youll get to be better friends. And if you trust her with personal stuff she'll trust you with personal stuff and you guys will get closer.How do you become BEST friends with someone?
u dont TRY for it to be real it has to ome naturally......TRUST ME
You don't seem like a loser at all, don't put yourself down :) If you open up and trust the other with secrets, then chances are they're more likely to take you seriously? Or you could try organising stuff with all three of you, so you get to know both of them more, then you could all sort of casually hang out together. Trust is a big thing in best friends, and once you have that well established your'e on your way and all you have to do is give it time. good luck :)
The only way to know if she feel that way is dropping a hint. You've been a fantastic friend! Or when her birthday comes round, you can sign your best friend. Or you can ask her, will you be my best friend and sees what she says. I hope she consider you the same becos you sound like a nice sensitive person. Invite her and some friends round, it's always more fun having a bunch of friends. Try not to think you are boring becos otherwise you wouldn't have friends, would you. Remember, everyone is different.
k your not a loser for a first.... yes it would be a good idea to invite her over first then other friends. if you dont have myspace or facebook get 1.... talk to her more on those sites if she has 1. i have a friend on facebook and i've only known him for 4 days and were best friends.... were both 13 and he got a girl pregnant and she was 15... now he asked me to be god father if possible. and i said yes i would gladly be godfather.... wht i think is u people should share more personal things in life like who u like.... all ths is in my opinion... hope it helps(:
Giiiirrrllll ! Lol. Don't worry about it, even if she doesn't consider you her best friend you are still the one she goes to talk to. So once the fun has worn off the other girl You'll still be there. %26amp; when she has a problem she'll talk to you. So ur more important than the simple label of a best friend. %26amp; as far as slepovers and stuff go, they can be fun with nothing, me %26amp; my best friend are I think everything ur saying u want. We don't go more than 2 days without seeing each other %26amp; when we don't see each other we call or txt. But it all fell into place, just blare some music dance like crazy people,have a picture night, do make overs like different ppl or styles, we've done the scene look, emo, goth, prep, we go for walks, cut each others hair, look up new bands, prank calls, bake, have movie nights, (themed of course) but it all happens in time. If u want more ideas just message me. Wow I am sorry this is so long. Lol
How to become better friends with someone who...?
like to laugh and is always making jokes,
what are some other things to do to become closer other than the basic things like just talk to them?How to become better friends with someone who...?
Talk go and chill and have lunch together and stuffHow to become better friends with someone who...?
Try talking to them with a normal conversation maybe questions about them, tell them things that are going on with you, what you like or don't like, things going on around the world. Be careful not to get into something big debate.
what are some other things to do to become closer other than the basic things like just talk to them?How to become better friends with someone who...?
Talk go and chill and have lunch together and stuffHow to become better friends with someone who...?
Try talking to them with a normal conversation maybe questions about them, tell them things that are going on with you, what you like or don't like, things going on around the world. Be careful not to get into something big debate.
How can I become best friends with someone who just counts you as a friend?
I have a regular friend but I want to be his best friend and his current best friend is just dorky and I don't understand it.How can I become best friends with someone who just counts you as a friend?
wait around like a puppy until he's gone through everyone else as a best friend then your the only one left. come on, be real, sounds like he ain't worth the hassle, but then again what do i know about him nothing. i guess just keep being yourself until he realizes how good a friend you can be.How can I become best friends with someone who just counts you as a friend?
having a best friend is overrated. it's better to have a group of close friends to hang out with. plus, he's not worth it if he doesn't even want to be your bf.
';Best Friend' isn't a goal.
You could be a better friend by understanding his choice of friends. Your judgement of his current best friend doesn't seem to make you qualified or the job yourself..
Friends don't keep score. Be a good friend to him, that's all anyone would ask. And the reward to you is that you get a good friend in return.
Ask him to hang out with you more!! Just get to know him better by talking about stuff that you both care about. You will get closer but you have to give it time.
wait around like a puppy until he's gone through everyone else as a best friend then your the only one left. come on, be real, sounds like he ain't worth the hassle, but then again what do i know about him nothing. i guess just keep being yourself until he realizes how good a friend you can be.How can I become best friends with someone who just counts you as a friend?
having a best friend is overrated. it's better to have a group of close friends to hang out with. plus, he's not worth it if he doesn't even want to be your bf.
';Best Friend' isn't a goal.
You could be a better friend by understanding his choice of friends. Your judgement of his current best friend doesn't seem to make you qualified or the job yourself..
Friends don't keep score. Be a good friend to him, that's all anyone would ask. And the reward to you is that you get a good friend in return.
Ask him to hang out with you more!! Just get to know him better by talking about stuff that you both care about. You will get closer but you have to give it time.
How do you become friends again with someone you haven't talked to in months?
Just drop them an e-mail or a phone call and say ';I just wanted to give you a call to say hi. I know that we haven't talked much recently, but I was thinking about you and just wanted to see how things are going. If you want to give me a call back when you get this, that would be great. Talk to you soon!..'; Then, when they call you back , if the convo is good, make plans to do something with them.How do you become friends again with someone you haven't talked to in months?
That happened to me and now i wish i never did start talking to her again!!!!!!!!!!!!How do you become friends again with someone you haven't talked to in months?
I have the same problem... Just go to him/her or call that person.
email if you have to.
Remember the things that made you close originally and make an effort to get the friendship back on track.
Call them up and invite her/him to lunch.
contact her/him through a phone call, or email or letter.
Take it from there. You's may not be 'friends' again.. but, at least you can say, you made that move and thats what counts.
Just talk about everything that happened over the months u didn't talk and while ur at it tlk about the reason y u two stopped tlking in the first place for so long.
I would just call them and talk to them. Just see how things are going. Call them back after that or they will call you back!
just start talking again, catch up
Just meet--and talk:)
just ask him/her out for a meal, and say you guys want to catch up. its that simple.
Depends. What's the big deal? A time lapse? If they're treacherous, though, how is it you consider them friends? I'm polite. I talk to a lot of people. Most I don't want to even look at, but there they are. ( Tolerance. ) Just because I talk to you doesn't make you my friend. Like just because somebody wears a uniform, doesn't mean a thing. You have to check it out. Particularly in California. Where people are especially treacherous and two faced. Particularly in a uniform. Hope this helps.
Pick up the phone and dial away.
Send them a ';Miss You'; card. Or just pick up the phone and tell them. Life is short. Don't waste one more moment!
It won't happen just over night. Just start talking to them. ask if they wanna grap a bite to eat or a coffee and just make small talk.
give it time!!
Whatever happened between you, you need to find that level where you were at of trusting and loving one another and try to work out the hostility between the two of you.
It either works out or it doesn't!
Good luck!!!
There must be a reason why your not talking to someone for months but I guess you can start with small talk. a hello here and there. text message them or email them.telling them to have a good day or a good weekend, good night etc. the key words here are small talk.
just do it
you cant...I think it was summed up best by another ';yahoo-er'; %26lt;-----(please don't everyone start saying yahoo-er; it sounds so freakin lame) and I quote: ';People are guerillas.'; end quote.
Be the better person, pick up the phone and say you were thinking about them and wondering how they were doing. Sometimes we think too much time has passed and it seems harder to pick up the phone, if their friendship is worth saving then call. Most likely they have missed you too.
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That happened to me and now i wish i never did start talking to her again!!!!!!!!!!!!How do you become friends again with someone you haven't talked to in months?
I have the same problem... Just go to him/her or call that person.
email if you have to.
Remember the things that made you close originally and make an effort to get the friendship back on track.
Call them up and invite her/him to lunch.
contact her/him through a phone call, or email or letter.
Take it from there. You's may not be 'friends' again.. but, at least you can say, you made that move and thats what counts.
Just talk about everything that happened over the months u didn't talk and while ur at it tlk about the reason y u two stopped tlking in the first place for so long.
I would just call them and talk to them. Just see how things are going. Call them back after that or they will call you back!
just start talking again, catch up
Just meet--and talk:)
just ask him/her out for a meal, and say you guys want to catch up. its that simple.
Depends. What's the big deal? A time lapse? If they're treacherous, though, how is it you consider them friends? I'm polite. I talk to a lot of people. Most I don't want to even look at, but there they are. ( Tolerance. ) Just because I talk to you doesn't make you my friend. Like just because somebody wears a uniform, doesn't mean a thing. You have to check it out. Particularly in California. Where people are especially treacherous and two faced. Particularly in a uniform. Hope this helps.
Pick up the phone and dial away.
Send them a ';Miss You'; card. Or just pick up the phone and tell them. Life is short. Don't waste one more moment!
It won't happen just over night. Just start talking to them. ask if they wanna grap a bite to eat or a coffee and just make small talk.
give it time!!
Whatever happened between you, you need to find that level where you were at of trusting and loving one another and try to work out the hostility between the two of you.
It either works out or it doesn't!
Good luck!!!
There must be a reason why your not talking to someone for months but I guess you can start with small talk. a hello here and there. text message them or email them.telling them to have a good day or a good weekend, good night etc. the key words here are small talk.
just do it
you cant...I think it was summed up best by another ';yahoo-er'; %26lt;-----(please don't everyone start saying yahoo-er; it sounds so freakin lame) and I quote: ';People are guerillas.'; end quote.
Be the better person, pick up the phone and say you were thinking about them and wondering how they were doing. Sometimes we think too much time has passed and it seems harder to pick up the phone, if their friendship is worth saving then call. Most likely they have missed you too.
Good luck..
How would you become best friends with someone that is more of an acquaintance, that you've known for years?
just going through high school and i know alot of people...but none are more than just an acquaintance. im stuck in this school and i need someone i can rely on. someone to hang with.
i lost my first best friend and i need to bounce back in. but there doesn't seem to be any new faces. and the few new people i meet... go against the ';bundaries'; of having a boyfriend. (new guy friends and boyfriend don't mix) even if they are good friends. i generaly hang out with people with good views and would help me out when i need it, but im probably the furthest thing from there mind when i walk away. so any advice as to how i would ';re-meet'; so to speak...the friends ive known for years? become closer to the people i know would be good close friends.
or really, anyone who understands what i mean wanna help me out?How would you become best friends with someone that is more of an acquaintance, that you've known for years?
just be sincere and spontaneous. Best friend are those who make you feel you are talking to yourself.
i lost my first best friend and i need to bounce back in. but there doesn't seem to be any new faces. and the few new people i meet... go against the ';bundaries'; of having a boyfriend. (new guy friends and boyfriend don't mix) even if they are good friends. i generaly hang out with people with good views and would help me out when i need it, but im probably the furthest thing from there mind when i walk away. so any advice as to how i would ';re-meet'; so to speak...the friends ive known for years? become closer to the people i know would be good close friends.
or really, anyone who understands what i mean wanna help me out?How would you become best friends with someone that is more of an acquaintance, that you've known for years?
just be sincere and spontaneous. Best friend are those who make you feel you are talking to yourself.
Is it okay to get mad if your friend becomes friends with someone you hate?
There was this guy who was my friend. Then, we stopped being friends.
One day, he sends me a hate letter that was soo harsh and mean and untrue.
Ever since then, my friends keep becoming friends with him. These are people that I trust and have told things to that I dont want anyone to know.
Now, I can imagine them bad-talking me and i HATE it.
My best friend is slowly becoming friends with him because her friends are doing the same.
How can I explain to her how uncomfortable it would make me feel if they became friends?
She thinks I will hate her if they become friends...and she fails to understand why.Is it okay to get mad if your friend becomes friends with someone you hate?
Well.... not really. My first best friend that I ever had is now my worst enemy. One of my old best friends is now her best-friend, if you catch my drift. I'm still cool with my old best friend and we talk and **** because she was in my class. Sometimes I see her hanging out with my enemy (1st best friend), and my old best friend still says hi anyway... so yea.. It ain't that bad..Is it okay to get mad if your friend becomes friends with someone you hate?
just explain to her what happen and show her the letter and tell her how you feel about her being clese to the person you dislike if she is your best friend she will understand.
I can see why YOU have problems with this person, but you can't impose your personal feelings upon another friend. Just don't hang out together.
find another group of friends.
Eventually they might wake up and see the light but it depends on what story he is feeding them.
no grow up.
the enemy of your enemy is your friend.
OK, first off, you shouldn't worry about other people talking to him about you. Usually, if you don't raise a huge fuss of ';I hate your guts for bailing on me's'; the topic of you will never become an issue. But if you start showing your jealousy and hatefulness, they might just tell him things out of spite.
People like other people for different reasons. I have friends who can't stand my other friends...but if one of them steps out of line and badmouths another, I let them know quickly that I don't appreciate it. If you fear your friends won't do the same for you, maybe you need a better class of friends...
yes. tel ur friend about wat u hate about that guy, ask her not to be nice to him.
tell her the straight up truth...the fact that your afraid that she's going to tell her your secrets..and depending on her response will tell whether she's really your friend or not..if she says that she wont tell her then ask her that youd like her not to be friends with her and if she is really your best friend she wont be...hope i helped
I've had the exact same problem, just TRY to be friends with him. If not then try to have new friends to hang out with. Or you can try to talk to him. When this happend to me i was VERY furious. But then i accepted that my friends can have friends that arn't me too. So try to accept the fact that they can have other friends too, Also try to talk to him and ask why he feels how he does.
yes its okay to be mad. Just show them your hate letter.
One day, he sends me a hate letter that was soo harsh and mean and untrue.
Ever since then, my friends keep becoming friends with him. These are people that I trust and have told things to that I dont want anyone to know.
Now, I can imagine them bad-talking me and i HATE it.
My best friend is slowly becoming friends with him because her friends are doing the same.
How can I explain to her how uncomfortable it would make me feel if they became friends?
She thinks I will hate her if they become friends...and she fails to understand why.Is it okay to get mad if your friend becomes friends with someone you hate?
Well.... not really. My first best friend that I ever had is now my worst enemy. One of my old best friends is now her best-friend, if you catch my drift. I'm still cool with my old best friend and we talk and **** because she was in my class. Sometimes I see her hanging out with my enemy (1st best friend), and my old best friend still says hi anyway... so yea.. It ain't that bad..Is it okay to get mad if your friend becomes friends with someone you hate?
just explain to her what happen and show her the letter and tell her how you feel about her being clese to the person you dislike if she is your best friend she will understand.
I can see why YOU have problems with this person, but you can't impose your personal feelings upon another friend. Just don't hang out together.
find another group of friends.
Eventually they might wake up and see the light but it depends on what story he is feeding them.
no grow up.
the enemy of your enemy is your friend.
OK, first off, you shouldn't worry about other people talking to him about you. Usually, if you don't raise a huge fuss of ';I hate your guts for bailing on me's'; the topic of you will never become an issue. But if you start showing your jealousy and hatefulness, they might just tell him things out of spite.
People like other people for different reasons. I have friends who can't stand my other friends...but if one of them steps out of line and badmouths another, I let them know quickly that I don't appreciate it. If you fear your friends won't do the same for you, maybe you need a better class of friends...
yes. tel ur friend about wat u hate about that guy, ask her not to be nice to him.
tell her the straight up truth...the fact that your afraid that she's going to tell her your secrets..and depending on her response will tell whether she's really your friend or not..if she says that she wont tell her then ask her that youd like her not to be friends with her and if she is really your best friend she wont be...hope i helped
I've had the exact same problem, just TRY to be friends with him. If not then try to have new friends to hang out with. Or you can try to talk to him. When this happend to me i was VERY furious. But then i accepted that my friends can have friends that arn't me too. So try to accept the fact that they can have other friends too, Also try to talk to him and ask why he feels how he does.
yes its okay to be mad. Just show them your hate letter.
How can you prevent people from seeing that you're friends with someone on facebook?
i want to become friends with someone, but my brother would get mad.. hahah. how can i add him without my brother or anyone finding out? and i don't just mean deleting the thing that says i become friends with him, i mean 100% completely disabling that.
thanks :)How can you prevent people from seeing that you're friends with someone on facebook?
Hi, unfortunately with the new privacy settings you can no longer hide a particular friend from your friends. Your friend list is visible to all friends. There is no way to hide him.How can you prevent people from seeing that you're friends with someone on facebook?
If you're talking about the news feed, where it says you became friends with so and so, you can't disable that.
thanks :)How can you prevent people from seeing that you're friends with someone on facebook?
Hi, unfortunately with the new privacy settings you can no longer hide a particular friend from your friends. Your friend list is visible to all friends. There is no way to hide him.How can you prevent people from seeing that you're friends with someone on facebook?
If you're talking about the news feed, where it says you became friends with so and so, you can't disable that.
How can I stop my best freind from becoming best friends with someone else?
Me and this girl have been BEST friends for years!!!!!! But she has been hanging around this other girl!!! A LOT!!!! I don't want them to become best friends! How do I stop them and make her LOVE me!!!How can I stop my best freind from becoming best friends with someone else?
I had the same problem when I was your age. Unfortunately, people do not stay friends forever. That is why you rarely hear of friends growing old together.
Stay as nice and sweet as you are, and if she continues to distance herself from you, don't be offended. This person just may have more in common with her than you. That's not a bad thing. If I were you, I would try to find a group of new friends, and still stay friends with her, but if she does stop hanging out with you, you'll still have friends. How can I stop my best freind from becoming best friends with someone else?
Why don't you try and be really nice to her and ask her to come over your house and talk to her ?
Maybe spoil her with what she loves first
(with chocolate maybe ?) before you ask big questions
If she was a True best friend you could talk to her about anything. and she should be okay with it. :D
But if shes ditching you for some other girl .. That's hardly a true friend is it?
So try making some other good friends to
x =]
Sorry, you can't....
It's not just up to you and if you have that kind of personality that you need to be in control maybe that's why she found another friend.
why can't you just all be friends?? and then you won't lose your best friend and you'll make another...
I had the same problem when I was your age. Unfortunately, people do not stay friends forever. That is why you rarely hear of friends growing old together.
Stay as nice and sweet as you are, and if she continues to distance herself from you, don't be offended. This person just may have more in common with her than you. That's not a bad thing. If I were you, I would try to find a group of new friends, and still stay friends with her, but if she does stop hanging out with you, you'll still have friends. How can I stop my best freind from becoming best friends with someone else?
Why don't you try and be really nice to her and ask her to come over your house and talk to her ?
Maybe spoil her with what she loves first
(with chocolate maybe ?) before you ask big questions
If she was a True best friend you could talk to her about anything. and she should be okay with it. :D
But if shes ditching you for some other girl .. That's hardly a true friend is it?
So try making some other good friends to
x =]
Sorry, you can't....
It's not just up to you and if you have that kind of personality that you need to be in control maybe that's why she found another friend.
why can't you just all be friends?? and then you won't lose your best friend and you'll make another...
How can you become only friends with someone that you wanted to be in love with?
That is very hard situation. Obviously, it will be awkward but just try to treat them like you would a normal friend. Give him advice about his problems, listen to him a lot, mess around with him. Maybe get out their and get a boyfriend so that he knows that you are not still hung up on him. Or you can admit your feelings because telling the truth is probably the best way to deal with things like this??xHow can you become only friends with someone that you wanted to be in love with?
It's hard to fall in love when you have not become friends yet. Love is too deep a term and it entails the experience of knowing the other person from head to toe. Not only that, if you say you love a person, you must be willing to accept the good as well as the bad sides of that person. That way, love is justified because there is a willingness to forego yourselves in the interest of the other. Friendship is only a part and process for love to be built from.How can you become only friends with someone that you wanted to be in love with?
This is a really hard question to answer because i'm in the same exatcy problem and looks like you're not the only one that feels that way because alot of people are stuck in this same situation...Right now i'm bestfriend with the ex i always wanted to be with and once was but i lost her so my best advice to you is...Be there for that person no matter what and try to learn to put your feelings aside for that person...you have to learn to accept that youre just friends and thats all you will ever be and if you truly love them then love them anouth to be there friend and want to see them truly happy...i hope this helps
It depends... You wanted to be in love with them... are you? Once you fall in love with someone, it's really hard to switch your feelings to just friends. But it is possible. Just, distance yourself from them, don't hang out with them as much... just focus on other things really. Eventually it'll work out, it's gonna hurt though if you were in love with them.
Sorry and best of luck!
You can share the love and the same strive to love, but do not let it become physical or get married. Syptoms that one really loves someone is that they MUST be with that person, and see them in dreams so long as they are not physical dreams.
i think u will be the best friend for him/her..coz u care
if u want to take the chance and not be left with cud have beens, you can tell him/her abt it..otherwise, go on pretending..it wont be easy, but heck, what is? :) goodluck
you really DO learn to get over it sometime and find someone better for you. you just have to keep meeting new people until you find someone you like, and not hold onto that one person.
I know, it seems impossible. Like you just can't stop feeling that way about the person... You just can't help it.
I don't know really, I'm kinda trying to figure this out myself.
im in the same prop so i cant help u 2 much but im just trying to get him to like me good luck
i'm havin the same problem.i'm trrying my best 2 love her.i cant solve ur problem
i had the same prob. but try not to flirt or anything
It's hard to fall in love when you have not become friends yet. Love is too deep a term and it entails the experience of knowing the other person from head to toe. Not only that, if you say you love a person, you must be willing to accept the good as well as the bad sides of that person. That way, love is justified because there is a willingness to forego yourselves in the interest of the other. Friendship is only a part and process for love to be built from.How can you become only friends with someone that you wanted to be in love with?
This is a really hard question to answer because i'm in the same exatcy problem and looks like you're not the only one that feels that way because alot of people are stuck in this same situation...Right now i'm bestfriend with the ex i always wanted to be with and once was but i lost her so my best advice to you is...Be there for that person no matter what and try to learn to put your feelings aside for that person...you have to learn to accept that youre just friends and thats all you will ever be and if you truly love them then love them anouth to be there friend and want to see them truly happy...i hope this helps
It depends... You wanted to be in love with them... are you? Once you fall in love with someone, it's really hard to switch your feelings to just friends. But it is possible. Just, distance yourself from them, don't hang out with them as much... just focus on other things really. Eventually it'll work out, it's gonna hurt though if you were in love with them.
Sorry and best of luck!
You can share the love and the same strive to love, but do not let it become physical or get married. Syptoms that one really loves someone is that they MUST be with that person, and see them in dreams so long as they are not physical dreams.
i think u will be the best friend for him/her..coz u care
if u want to take the chance and not be left with cud have beens, you can tell him/her abt it..otherwise, go on pretending..it wont be easy, but heck, what is? :) goodluck
you really DO learn to get over it sometime and find someone better for you. you just have to keep meeting new people until you find someone you like, and not hold onto that one person.
I know, it seems impossible. Like you just can't stop feeling that way about the person... You just can't help it.
I don't know really, I'm kinda trying to figure this out myself.
im in the same prop so i cant help u 2 much but im just trying to get him to like me good luck
i'm havin the same problem.i'm trrying my best 2 love her.i cant solve ur problem
i had the same prob. but try not to flirt or anything
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
How to become best friends with someone?
okay this is a weird question but imagine your in my point of view. One of my friends told me she was a really great person. Shes nice and sweet. (the person I wanna become bffs with) I added her on facebook a few days ago and she accepted. I dont know where to go from there. Shes really sporty and im not so much. I play basketball and cheerlead but thats about it. Shes more into volleyball and softball. both i suck REALLY bad at. Shes really popular but thats not the reason why. I knew her the tiniest bit before she became popular. She looked at me in class a few days ago im guessing trying to see if i was that person she added. She never did talk to me. (well i walked off i guess haha) so how do you become close to someone? i barely remember how i became close to my friends. Like at all. I feel like it just happened and we just clicked. Help?How to become best friends with someone?
Start hanging out at the same table together, join a club with her, ask her if she watches [insert show], you know normal stuff(:
/partner with her on a project?How to become best friends with someone?
Okay, friend. If you want to be friends with somebody you cant force it! It happens naturally! Find someone that you have a lot in common with. Who cares if theyre not the prettiest or the most popular? It shouldnt matter! This girl obviously doesnt want to be best friends, but if you be yourself and act friendly and talk to her, that may change. You cant force friendship, it happens when two people with common interests meet and become close. Simple as that. Hope I helped! :)
Hmm...... I would say try talking to her more about anything interesting to both of you. You need to hang out with her a bit more but always invite other friends you girls share together you know that way you guys won't be having those long silences when no one knows what to say LOL. :) Plus it isn't about what sport and popular stuff i mean you guys can be friends regardless.
Hope i helped... :)
Very interesting question. Well, I have 2 best friends and having things in common helps. Like I met them both at school (not at the same time though) and I had things in common. Yeah, normally people just click. You both have sports in common, just not the same ones. idk
You can't force someone to become your friend or best friend. Just think, why do you become friends with some people and not others?
You have to earn their trust, just like they earned yours, and of course have to have things in common. Be nice to her, if that doesn't work than she feels you don't have enough things in common with her.
I think you should just start talking to her on face book.
ask her for advice when you need it and say thank you, you the best after. doing this you guys will fill closer..open up Little to become even more closer. find something in command to talk about. just keep on talking to her but don't talk to her enough to scare her away but just to let her know you want to be her friend. say hi to her in school, but don't do it every time you see her, because she might get freaked out
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Start hanging out at the same table together, join a club with her, ask her if she watches [insert show], you know normal stuff(:
/partner with her on a project?How to become best friends with someone?
Okay, friend. If you want to be friends with somebody you cant force it! It happens naturally! Find someone that you have a lot in common with. Who cares if theyre not the prettiest or the most popular? It shouldnt matter! This girl obviously doesnt want to be best friends, but if you be yourself and act friendly and talk to her, that may change. You cant force friendship, it happens when two people with common interests meet and become close. Simple as that. Hope I helped! :)
Hmm...... I would say try talking to her more about anything interesting to both of you. You need to hang out with her a bit more but always invite other friends you girls share together you know that way you guys won't be having those long silences when no one knows what to say LOL. :) Plus it isn't about what sport and popular stuff i mean you guys can be friends regardless.
Hope i helped... :)
Very interesting question. Well, I have 2 best friends and having things in common helps. Like I met them both at school (not at the same time though) and I had things in common. Yeah, normally people just click. You both have sports in common, just not the same ones. idk
You can't force someone to become your friend or best friend. Just think, why do you become friends with some people and not others?
You have to earn their trust, just like they earned yours, and of course have to have things in common. Be nice to her, if that doesn't work than she feels you don't have enough things in common with her.
I think you should just start talking to her on face book.
ask her for advice when you need it and say thank you, you the best after. doing this you guys will fill closer..open up Little to become even more closer. find something in command to talk about. just keep on talking to her but don't talk to her enough to scare her away but just to let her know you want to be her friend. say hi to her in school, but don't do it every time you see her, because she might get freaked out
well hoped i could help let me know if it worked
How can i become better friends with someone?
There is someone i kind of know but not really, i see them at school every day, but i dont know how to become better friends with them, i would really like to become good friends with him but i dont know how, i say a few things and joke around with him a little bit but we still arnt becoming good friends.How can i become better friends with someone?
Well unless you start really getting to know him or he you it won't go much farther than an aquaintance, if I were you I would confide in him, something you need advice on and so forth and also feel free if you hear he is having issues or he mentions something like it offer your own advice this kind of thing instills more trust and eventually you may be better friends because of it, and also don't hesitate to invite him to something like a baseball game or concert with you and your own friends....How can i become better friends with someone?
hello my name is Jed i'm 45 and male . it's been my experience in life that the best thing is to BEE YOURSELF don't change! live as you normally would if is meant to be it will happen don't change yourself for anyone or anything you will find out in time that you woll be the one that ends up unfufiled think about it for a while . LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO DANCE WITH UGLY PEOPLE AND BEAUTY COMES FROM WITHIN thanks thats only the way i look at it jedsshed2ooo@yahoo.ca have a great day
get a small group to gether and go eat then a movie..... really try to talk to him but not to much......dont just go on and on.
Maybe join an extra curricular activity that they are involved in.
it takes time
but it will surely pay off
so continue with your good deeds
every little thing counts and add up
don't rush onto anything
it's just a matter of time
Have a get together with friends and invite him along
Well unless you start really getting to know him or he you it won't go much farther than an aquaintance, if I were you I would confide in him, something you need advice on and so forth and also feel free if you hear he is having issues or he mentions something like it offer your own advice this kind of thing instills more trust and eventually you may be better friends because of it, and also don't hesitate to invite him to something like a baseball game or concert with you and your own friends....How can i become better friends with someone?
hello my name is Jed i'm 45 and male . it's been my experience in life that the best thing is to BEE YOURSELF don't change! live as you normally would if is meant to be it will happen don't change yourself for anyone or anything you will find out in time that you woll be the one that ends up unfufiled think about it for a while . LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO DANCE WITH UGLY PEOPLE AND BEAUTY COMES FROM WITHIN thanks thats only the way i look at it jedsshed2ooo@yahoo.ca have a great day
get a small group to gether and go eat then a movie..... really try to talk to him but not to much......dont just go on and on.
Maybe join an extra curricular activity that they are involved in.
it takes time
but it will surely pay off
so continue with your good deeds
every little thing counts and add up
don't rush onto anything
it's just a matter of time
Have a get together with friends and invite him along
How do you become the best of friends with someone?
I know this really cool guy, and he is so easy to talk to. I can imagine myself being best friends with him. But all of the best friends i had before were girls, like me. How do i do that?How do you become the best of friends with someone?
Invite him to an outting sometime, and just get to know him, and talk to him, have fun. If you guys connect, then you'll be hanging out more often. And texting and calling each other will come naturally. You guys will slowly bond and become great friends.
Invite him to an outting sometime, and just get to know him, and talk to him, have fun. If you guys connect, then you'll be hanging out more often. And texting and calling each other will come naturally. You guys will slowly bond and become great friends.
Becoming friends with someone outside your ';group';?
I want to be friends with a girl who is a little farther up the social ladder then me. We used to talk a lot during class but now we don't talk as much since we have had our classroom rearranged. She's really funny and I could see us as good friends. But recently she has become ';fast best friends'; with a girl who is kind of annoying to me. I don't know how to approach this situation, but I really want to be friends with her. Any tips, please?Becoming friends with someone outside your ';group';?
You'll realize eventually (usually when you enter college), that this kind of thinking is immature. Who made up this social ladder, and why don't you belong at the top? As far as I'm concerned, all of you middle/high schoolers are ridiculous, so just enjoy yourselves. Hang out with who you want to hang out with, whether they be ';popular'; or ';losers';. Trust me, you'll be a better person in the long run.Becoming friends with someone outside your ';group';?
Well i was in this exact problem. What i did was approched her and found a best friend. Maybe you can approch her and then you will see that you will become best friends with her friend too. Your friend will make some time for you if she really is a good friend. The one i approched i thought she was very annoying and crazy but i dont regret it because it turns out we are best friends until now and that was years ago. Dont think that she may look annoying or act that way just learn more about her, I hope this helps. If you really want to be friends with her take your chances dont wast it k. Also try to see when she is available she maybe.
Whats wrong with you? Your chasing a girl to be friends with because she's more popular then you?
Just be yourself and be friends with the people that like you for who you are. Think about it this way she changed classes and became ';fast best friends'; with someone else. What did you think you were? you were just the girl sitting next to her, someone to talk too cause it was convenient. Anyone can fake who they are but only some can be themselves.
UMM SHE'S TIRED OF YOU.. THATS TEH SAD TRUTH
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just go and talk to her about something you used to joke about or something
See if she is up for hanging out , outside of school.
invite her over to ur house - the fast freindship will wear off tht happened to me b4
You'll realize eventually (usually when you enter college), that this kind of thinking is immature. Who made up this social ladder, and why don't you belong at the top? As far as I'm concerned, all of you middle/high schoolers are ridiculous, so just enjoy yourselves. Hang out with who you want to hang out with, whether they be ';popular'; or ';losers';. Trust me, you'll be a better person in the long run.Becoming friends with someone outside your ';group';?
Well i was in this exact problem. What i did was approched her and found a best friend. Maybe you can approch her and then you will see that you will become best friends with her friend too. Your friend will make some time for you if she really is a good friend. The one i approched i thought she was very annoying and crazy but i dont regret it because it turns out we are best friends until now and that was years ago. Dont think that she may look annoying or act that way just learn more about her, I hope this helps. If you really want to be friends with her take your chances dont wast it k. Also try to see when she is available she maybe.
Whats wrong with you? Your chasing a girl to be friends with because she's more popular then you?
Just be yourself and be friends with the people that like you for who you are. Think about it this way she changed classes and became ';fast best friends'; with someone else. What did you think you were? you were just the girl sitting next to her, someone to talk too cause it was convenient. Anyone can fake who they are but only some can be themselves.
UMM SHE'S TIRED OF YOU.. THATS TEH SAD TRUTH
ANSWER MINE PLEASE!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100120183408AAm1gh4%26amp;r=w
just go and talk to her about something you used to joke about or something
See if she is up for hanging out , outside of school.
invite her over to ur house - the fast freindship will wear off tht happened to me b4
How do you become not friends with someone of facebook?
i am friends with someone on facebook and i dont want to be anymore, how do i make it so that i am not friends with them. and if i become not friends with them, will facebook notify that person? thanks!How do you become not friends with someone of facebook?
Go to the person's profile. Scroll all the way down to the bottom, and on the left there should be a link that says ';Remove from Friends.'; Click it.
Some information from Facebook's help section:
';How do I remove a friend?
If you would like to remove a friend, please navigate to the person鈥檚 profile page. When you view the person鈥檚 profile page, you will see the 鈥楻emove from Friends鈥?link at the bottom of the page. If you select this option, you will be removed from their Friend List as well. You will need to repeat the friend confirmation process if you wish to be friends with this person again.';
';If I remove someone as a friend, will they be notified?
No, but all friend links are reciprocal, so you will be removed as a friend from their account as well.';How do you become not friends with someone of facebook?
Just tried this and received a message saying that if I removed them as a friend then I could never add them again and that they would NOT be notified. So feel free to delete them. They won't know directly but they might guess if your profile is viewable to only friends and they are locked out?
Go to the person's profile. Scroll all the way down to the bottom, and on the left there should be a link that says ';Remove from Friends.'; Click it.
Some information from Facebook's help section:
';How do I remove a friend?
If you would like to remove a friend, please navigate to the person鈥檚 profile page. When you view the person鈥檚 profile page, you will see the 鈥楻emove from Friends鈥?link at the bottom of the page. If you select this option, you will be removed from their Friend List as well. You will need to repeat the friend confirmation process if you wish to be friends with this person again.';
';If I remove someone as a friend, will they be notified?
No, but all friend links are reciprocal, so you will be removed as a friend from their account as well.';How do you become not friends with someone of facebook?
Just tried this and received a message saying that if I removed them as a friend then I could never add them again and that they would NOT be notified. So feel free to delete them. They won't know directly but they might guess if your profile is viewable to only friends and they are locked out?
How can i become friends with someone who is a grade higher than me?
There is a new girl at school and I kinda hung out with her at a school dance. She's really cool %26amp; nice. I would like to like hang out with her. The problem is that she is a grade older than me. So i don't see her in the halls or shes not in any of my classes including lunch. There is facebook but that would be kinda weird. lol :P
Any tips?
(p.s im not trying to be creepy i just wanna get to know her cuz kinda hung out with her @ a school thing and yeahh .. :P)How can i become friends with someone who is a grade higher than me?
facebook isn't weird just be like hey remember me and ya'll will be cool againHow can i become friends with someone who is a grade higher than me?
Why is Facebook weird? O_o It's your only tool so get it, talk to her, get to know her, then you could try hanging out outside of school.
Any tips?
(p.s im not trying to be creepy i just wanna get to know her cuz kinda hung out with her @ a school thing and yeahh .. :P)How can i become friends with someone who is a grade higher than me?
facebook isn't weird just be like hey remember me and ya'll will be cool againHow can i become friends with someone who is a grade higher than me?
Why is Facebook weird? O_o It's your only tool so get it, talk to her, get to know her, then you could try hanging out outside of school.
How to become friends with someone you already know?
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There is this girl in three of my classes. We already know who each other are, so I don't want anything like ';Hi I'm so and so. What';s your name?';. I really want to be her friend and I am tired of just saying stuff like hi and occasionally saying something to each other. Got anything to help me?How to become friends with someone you already know?
Ask her about her other classes
Ask her about her weekend
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There is this girl in three of my classes. We already know who each other are, so I don't want anything like ';Hi I'm so and so. What';s your name?';. I really want to be her friend and I am tired of just saying stuff like hi and occasionally saying something to each other. Got anything to help me?How to become friends with someone you already know?
Ask her about her other classes
Ask her about her weekend
Ask her about any groups/clubs she ebelongs to
How do you trust someone enough to become friends?
I got burned by my best friend a year ago who slept with my ex-boyfriend. I found out and dumped them both at the same time, which hurt really badly. Problem is that I'm pretty shy and don't feel comfortable with people until I get to know them very well. I'd like to find another good friend, but how do you trust people? Do you ever wonder if your new female friend will betray you like your last friend?How do you trust someone enough to become friends?
The best thing to do is trust in yourself. When you trust in yourself and believe in your own voice inside your head, you can tell what person is good and what person is not so good. The girl who burned you i am sure you saw signs that she was jealous or flaky or had some kind of bad vibe about her that you overlooked or ignored.
Find a friend that is secured with themselves and have good morals. Never discuss your man, confide in your friend about problems with your man, nor brag about your man to no female, because every woman wants to live happily ever after, every woman wants a man. So, don't advertise him to your friends, keep your private business private or you will not have any business. If your friend is constantly giving you unwanted advice about your man or make him seem like he is nothing or praise him too much that is a sign, but never appear jealous, intimidate or threaten, just ask yourself why is my friend so worried about your man, her answer, is because i care about you, unless he is beating you it is none of her business.
And about your man, find a man with morals and who appreciate your morals.
Don't become someone friend or girlfriend out of desperation, do not be too paranoid or suspicious but dont be too gullible and ignore your gut feelings either.
The main person you should try to become friends with now is yourself, and that confident but modest attitude will attract the right person. But dont rust it, it is said when you look for it, you dont get it but if you don't look for it, you find it.
Healing hurt takes time, so don't rush it.
Sometimes there are friends out there, but we over look it and have a certain idea of a friend in mind. You can become friends with the elderly lady next door, or the not so popular lonely girl across the street or the moral but friendly girl of a different race around the block.
When finding a man have the same open minded attitude. sometimes what we need is right in our face we over look it to find something that does not exist. While that perfect opportunity passes us up
It is okay to be shy and it is only right to feel comfortable around someone when you know them. It is perfectly okay to be youHow do you trust someone enough to become friends?
You know that's a sentiment I feel quite often because I broke it off with two best friends I had this year (Both of whom I knew for years). I haven't made many new friends and honestly it can be quite frustrating because I feel lonely because of it. I'm saying a lot of this so you know you're not the only one. The way I deal with it? Take a chance anyway. People aren't generally out to stab you in the back and if they do, it can hurt but you can bounce back from it. Just remind yourself that you'll heal, and things will be fine. It can't be done overnight, but, it's a matter of time. If you want to talk more about it you can email/IM me at serenelune @ hotmail dot com.
you know when a friend is worth of trust when...
well, it's hard to explain. but for me, i just know it.
and to trust people? you just got to do it. they'll trust you if you trust them, unless they're backstabbers.
It can be hard but everyone deserves a chance.
You can't assume everyone will back stab you like your old friend did. It's hard to trust people, I agree, but you shouldn't judge them before hand - You'll never make friends that way.
Don't trust anyone
The best thing to do is trust in yourself. When you trust in yourself and believe in your own voice inside your head, you can tell what person is good and what person is not so good. The girl who burned you i am sure you saw signs that she was jealous or flaky or had some kind of bad vibe about her that you overlooked or ignored.
Find a friend that is secured with themselves and have good morals. Never discuss your man, confide in your friend about problems with your man, nor brag about your man to no female, because every woman wants to live happily ever after, every woman wants a man. So, don't advertise him to your friends, keep your private business private or you will not have any business. If your friend is constantly giving you unwanted advice about your man or make him seem like he is nothing or praise him too much that is a sign, but never appear jealous, intimidate or threaten, just ask yourself why is my friend so worried about your man, her answer, is because i care about you, unless he is beating you it is none of her business.
And about your man, find a man with morals and who appreciate your morals.
Don't become someone friend or girlfriend out of desperation, do not be too paranoid or suspicious but dont be too gullible and ignore your gut feelings either.
The main person you should try to become friends with now is yourself, and that confident but modest attitude will attract the right person. But dont rust it, it is said when you look for it, you dont get it but if you don't look for it, you find it.
Healing hurt takes time, so don't rush it.
Sometimes there are friends out there, but we over look it and have a certain idea of a friend in mind. You can become friends with the elderly lady next door, or the not so popular lonely girl across the street or the moral but friendly girl of a different race around the block.
When finding a man have the same open minded attitude. sometimes what we need is right in our face we over look it to find something that does not exist. While that perfect opportunity passes us up
It is okay to be shy and it is only right to feel comfortable around someone when you know them. It is perfectly okay to be youHow do you trust someone enough to become friends?
You know that's a sentiment I feel quite often because I broke it off with two best friends I had this year (Both of whom I knew for years). I haven't made many new friends and honestly it can be quite frustrating because I feel lonely because of it. I'm saying a lot of this so you know you're not the only one. The way I deal with it? Take a chance anyway. People aren't generally out to stab you in the back and if they do, it can hurt but you can bounce back from it. Just remind yourself that you'll heal, and things will be fine. It can't be done overnight, but, it's a matter of time. If you want to talk more about it you can email/IM me at serenelune @ hotmail dot com.
you know when a friend is worth of trust when...
well, it's hard to explain. but for me, i just know it.
and to trust people? you just got to do it. they'll trust you if you trust them, unless they're backstabbers.
It can be hard but everyone deserves a chance.
You can't assume everyone will back stab you like your old friend did. It's hard to trust people, I agree, but you shouldn't judge them before hand - You'll never make friends that way.
Don't trust anyone
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