How do you become good friends with someone who is anti-social?

I know this guy and i want to be better friends with him, but i think he's really anti-social because he doesn't talk a lot and he likes the fact that he's quiet. I asked him to hang out a couple of times and he finds a way to say no without actually saying no.


Is there any chance he would go outside his comfort zones?


How can i be better friends with him?How do you become good friends with someone who is anti-social?
Keep trying to talk with him. He is probably lonely and wishes he could have friends. He probably would like you to be his friend but he probably doesn't have very good social skills. It's a very good thing that you are doing :)How do you become good friends with someone who is anti-social?
It could be hard to get someone anti-social to become social. This is what you are trying to do. I had the same problem twice and the first time it turned out bad bacause I got into a fight with the guy, so try not to be too pursasive. The second time was a succes because the guy was a different type and could easily agree with people so it actually depends on the persons personality. It is important that you know the person well (as well as you can) and choose the right moment to ask him to hang out. Also if he is not really social the first time you ask him to hang out try be with a few people so he doesn't get stressed. Anti-social are ussualy worried around people so do not be with a big group of people the first time you hang out.
Make him feel more comfortable when you talk to him and talk about something that he is interested in. He will probably get more involved in the conversation and you guys could have a legit conversation that would sort of bring him out of his shell.
Find out what he's interested in and use it to connect with him. From my personal experience, I'd say quieter guys are usually into TV shows, videogames, books, something like that. Find out what it is, learn about it, and ask him intelligent questions.
Just try and connect more with him. Some people are just this way, but I bet eventually he would come out of his comfort zone and might even be thankful that you spent the time and effort with him.
you might end up doing all the work


so you need to look at in in the futrue


you will be the one always talking


why dont you say to him, i really want to be your friends


but im not sure if i should as i feel like im the only one doing all the work


good luck x
just start short conversations with them. it always worked for me. just ask them something simple until they become comfortable with you.
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quiet ones r the worst be careful friends okay but not good for relationship. if friends start by talkin to hi by phone break the ice
Well maybe he is not confortable so u shud leave him alone and respect his wishes mayb tht way slowly he will come 2 u in his own time
try harder to make conversation with him or something like that
that's hard. like myself, some people just prefer solitude.
just try to push conversation sometimes dont give up easy and he will relise that u r tryin 2 gt 2 no him and my talk a bit more
take interest in what he likes n not what u like....ask him wat he like to do for fun n try n join him..

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