How do you become good friends with someone?

I want to become good friends with one of my friends


but I havent seen her since last yr in summer and on MSN The convo's r akward. on wednesday she was all jolly nd she was like ';Im there for u babe..'; then today she's very quiet.How do you become good friends with someone?
Don't take this personally. Sometimes people have days where they don't feel like talking, for maybe a problem going on, maybe they're just tired, a lot on their minds, or simply not really computer people anymore. If you want to be good friends, arrange to meet up and catch up. That should get things going, since I'm sure you have a lot of catching up to do.How do you become good friends with someone?
ask her y she's so quiet


ask her to hang out, but not like ';lets hang out sometime'; more like ';what are you doing tomorrow (saturday, sunday, whenever)'; so find a day when she's free and ask her if she'd like to hang out