Monday, August 9, 2010

How do i become friends with someone?

Don't think that i'm weird OK?





I just met an amazing guy that i really want to be friends with (not 'more than friends' at this point)





The thing is that making friends had become a somewhat intrinsic, subconcious occurance to me.


I have never made a 'decision' to befriend someone, it just happend.





How can i become friends with this guy.


I talk to him on msn all the time and we go out with a grop occasionally.





How can i become closer to HIM though?How do i become friends with someone?
be yourself ask him if he wants to do something together or try to get him to ask you on a date


it dosent have to be intimate or just let nature take its course and if he wants to be friends youll be friends. but as like a buddy most guys wont hang out with a girl their attracted to as a buddy theyll want more than to be friends. but maybe im wrong. i would personally ask that person to out somewhere that you know he wont run into a group friends and leave you hangingHow do i become friends with someone?
Be random- people don't have barriers very much when you are brave and random!





I think when you are trying to make friends with someone especially you have a keen interest in, it's hard to be normal. So pretend you are having a happy joyful day one day when you are walking past him and you want to share it with him. That's generally not weird but welcomed. You've talked to him before as well, so things should be made easier.





The necessary ingredients are: Be carefree and be confident and yourself.





That kind of friendship always works and full of fun :)
I'd say just talk to him you know? just like you would with any other friend, just put a lot of interest into what he says, but not 'too' much, you have to limit yourself, don't always be trying to contact him or something, which i doubt is an issue, but just incase =P but it seems like you could just talk to him like you would any other person and as time goes by, the more time you spend with him the closer you should get if all goes well.
Ask him questions about what he likes and listen. Try to see the subject from his perspective. Seeing issues from other peoples' perspective is very powerful. They will fall into their own surprise when you do that.
just talk about things you guys have in common and show lots of interest when hes talking about things. ask him lots about himself etc.
just be urself. if worst comes to worst find someone else.
Just keep on hanging with him and destiny will make it way...
be friendly, listen to what others say when talking

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