How to become friends with the popular girl?

I joined high school this year so everyone was new and started to make friends with new people etc. The popular girl always wanted to be with me at the beginning of the school year and i liked her personnality too but i didnt really bother being with her cause i was desperate at makin a great first impression to teachers and stuff(im not nerdy). Then she thought i didnt like her and so became friends with someone else who i knew from my drama class and this person was always SO shy and because of this friendship she became really confident and cool and now everyone and the cool people love her. Now im hard on myself for not takin the opportunity to becoming friends with the girl who wanted to be mine in the first place. I would love to be popular but i want her friendship not her popularity really.


So I would like to know how to become very good friends with her and possibly her other friends,





P.S. Do you have any cool or funny phrases i could say to her when i see her in lessons ?


P.P.S. We re not friends but we re in good terms


P.P.P.S if you're answering to give me a lecture about me being shallow and stupid and its better not to be popular then stop now cause i obviously dont care





Thanks,, no rude comments pleaseHow to become friends with the popular girl?
confidence.......pure confidence...that is what wins the heart of the person you want to pursue...always....make no mistake!!! i promise if you just believe in yourself, go to this person and just be yourself....dont worry about what they think....even if they think you are an idiot.......you can be completely stupid and still be hot....look at john mayor....his voice is the only thing that gets him women...he is an ugly disgusting looking man.....its all about behavior and attidudeHow to become friends with the popular girl?
I was friends with a popular girl but all the populars are snobby most of the time . this girl I was friends with that was popular always blew me off , like in the halway she didnt say hi to me , so just stick to the regular friends .
be yourself.. dont be on the prowl for friends, what happens happens

Why do a friend try to become cool with one of your friends?

I have a friend that I've known for years. I recently became friends with someone else and we would hang any and every day. We would also talk every night on the phone (not purposely). Me and my new friend became close and my old friend would point out how much I would hang with that new friend. I felt it was out of jealousy. I introduce the two so that it would be easier to hang with the two and now they have become close and playing games like 3-way calls but I'm not aware of the third person on the phone. The old friend saying things as though she is trying to set me up and lieing about there being someone else on the other line.I believe my old friend is trying to bring a wedge between my new friend and I. She believe she was once becoming a problem but hasnt stepped out the pic yet, now I'm on the verge of just letting them both go as a friend (friendship is too personal).Why do a friend try to become cool with one of your friends?
Ohh see, this is what she is trying to do probably.





Your old friend is probably jealous that you hang out with your new friend much. But now your old friend will make you seem bad to make you not be friends with your new friend. So then you and your old friend could be friends again.


It's common, the old friend wants you for themselves. Kind of possessive.


If this old friend is a guy = he might like you


If a girl = ?? i got no idea what goes in girls heads...








If I were you, i'd think things through before making the conclusion.


Talk to them both if you need too.





Well the girls comment below me pretty much sums it up...


Good luckWhy do a friend try to become cool with one of your friends?
ffriendship has its own way let it do whatever it wants if it is ur true friend then it will not do so again
Try to talk to both of ur friends. If u think ur old friend is creating a prob btw u n ur new frnd then tell ur new friend personally what u feel about ur old friend... so that she be alert next time ur old friend says something or do something against u in xreating problems btw both of u.





Also, talk to ur old friend and say u feel she is creating problems. If she denies it and acts the same way then decide who is more precious to u.. ur old frnd or ur new one and then dump one of them and hang on with one.





Suggestion: If two friends r precious to u never introduce them to eacother.. it creates problem and sometimes they become cool friends and ur out of the pic.

How do you become friends with your crush?

I'm kinda shy, but once I am friends with someone, I act like a different person. But the biggest problem is that whenever I have a crush, he is completely different from me. (In this case, he's ALWAYS out with friends) I see him as unapproachable not only because I like him, but also because he's that different and I don't know what exactly to say. I always think I'll end up looking weird, and it's hard to do something simple, like asking for homework help because my CLOSE friends are in the same class. And last but not least, I freeze up whenever I see him--I know, not a good thing. But I know I should say hi just for starters... is there anything I can do to calm down when I see him? Thanks! :-)How do you become friends with your crush?
I am exactly the same way around boys I like, like once I only ever spoke to my crush on Instant Messaging, I knew who he was because we went to the same school and everything, then he found out who I was and he said hi to me, I got all panicky and for a few weeks after everytime he said hello to me I pretended I was in a rush and walked off, he thought I never really liked him, but he spoke to me about it, now we're like best friends, all you have to do is just say hi every now and then, then build up the conversation, say something simple like 'hey, how are you?' then he will reply and you just keep it flowing, keep confident and you will get closer. Trust me.How do you become friends with your crush?
That i think sophie is great advice. i have the same problem as chocolate and i will try this. thanks

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You don't want to be on the friends list. You want on the date list. Best way to NOT date her is to be on the friends list.





FRIENDS DON'T DATE FRIENDS. That's because both will lose other friends when and if you break up.
Walk up to him and ask him to help you with some problem you had with the homework or a test in the class. Tell him you know you could ask one of your friends for help, but then you just end up chatting and goofing off with them so you think it will be better to get someone your not so close to's help. Maybe that will break the ice some.
Well find out more about this guy. That way you can see he is human and not the greatest guy u will ever meet. The way all girls see their crush(most of the time) then find out what he likes to know if it is truely something you guys can talk about. You have to have some common ground. Are u friends with any of his friends? If so try hanging out with them more often. There is a chance that you could run into him somewhere and he can get to know u better. Know that you need to see if there is something you guys can talk about. You can't have a relationship if you there is too many silences unless it is because he feels awkword too. Good Luck and remember your time will come for him to notice you. And if not just start talking to him or u can find someone else that u know u can talk too.

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I want to ask someone to become friends with benefits.?

Its clear that he wants to be this, but how do i push it to be that? I don't want a relationship. Neither does he. We just want sex.I want to ask someone to become friends with benefits.?
I think it is okay to do. In fact, the other day I talked to my ex boyfriend about it. We have made out a few times and done other things that we did in the relationship, hence the beginning of ';Friends with benefits.'; During out relationship we never had sex. We are both virgins and he is the one I trust. So, we are taking our friends with benefits to a new level . We've talked about it and set guidelines. Just make sure you are prepared emotionally/mentally for the repercussions. Also make sure that he understands that he is going to need to be there to talk to you later about it (if necessary) and that he is willing to take the proper measures to keep you safe. Life is about having fun and taking risks.I want to ask someone to become friends with benefits.?
As long as your positive that the other person wants it to. Because its like a huge insult to ask a random person that.


Anyway, surprise him with a kiss, like the beginning and a preview of what to come. And then explain the terms and conditions.
Wow..you very discrete..just be open and tell him. Two people that know what they want but they are scared to discuss it. Take the one step and break the ice..good luck
a few drinks always gets things going!


or just tell him.
I am looking for one too...knowing anyone? send it my way! *LOL*

Becoming Friends With Someone?. (Guys. Not Gay!)?

Ok. There is a lad whos in my class in high school. I want to be mates with him coz he seems really canny (canny meens nice n cool lol) I only talk to him on msn aboot 10 mins a day n thts it so he barely knows me. Tell me how I can gradully become friends wif em. (not gay just reely bad at making new friends lol) Becoming Friends With Someone?. (Guys. Not Gay!)?
Just keep talking to him and maybe ask him to go hang out with you and some other friends.Becoming Friends With Someone?. (Guys. Not Gay!)?
You want to be ';mates'; with him?? WTF?? You Britts are strange. If you said that in the real world (i.e. the USA) people would call you a fag.





Oh and ';lad';? Who says lad?
mmnnnn this is the most undercover gayness Ive seen in a while

When you're becoming friends with someone and they're asking you questions...?

about what schools or jobs you had and stuff, but you dont want to talk about it, how do you say that without appearing shy or mean but still friendly and open? lol :(





ive opened up to so many people that became best friends only to lose them or they turned into enemies a year or two later and did more bad than good in my life. painful memories, plus it reminds me of therapy.When you're becoming friends with someone and they're asking you questions...?
You can give out the info. Its not like its your D.O.B or SS info. You can be friends and also maintain a personal barrier if youd like to call it that. Friends come and go, but the good ones are there to stay. For every dozen of baddies you get, one good one comes along to change all the rules.When you're becoming friends with someone and they're asking you questions...?
i think that talking about that kind of stuff wouldnt affect your relationship. you dont wanna keep things bottled up. if your becoming friends with someone wouldnt you wanna know that stuff about them? i think it depends on the type of person your talking to
i understand what you mean. just be honest about it...


tell em you'd like to be good friends but there are stuff you'd like to keep to yourself..


its harder than it sounds but honesty is always important
Just make something up and move on to something else. Like I'ld rather not talk about that, or something. Just dont shut down and get sad when its brought up. stay happy.
tell them youd rather not talk about it.
Just give short and sweet answers! Until you get to know them better. No harm :-)

I wrote a intro paragraph on a compare/contrast essay about 2 friends and i want how i can make it better?

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I think it's perfect. What exactly do you want to make better? Why worry so much?I wrote a intro paragraph on a compare/contrast essay about 2 friends and i want how i can make it better?
Friends are companions that are with me to help me in the troubles of life itself . When you become friends with someone like this , it is because you know it to be true and enjoy their company and share similar characteristics, However, how do you know which friends to choose? Friends are usually the one鈥檚 that are there when I need them the most . I will compare two of my friends that I have and show what the difference between both of them